my husband was a truckdriver so he had the opportunity and time and had to make no excuses as to his whereabouts i find out he had been cheating on me 2 mths after we were married but i didn't find out until 10 mths later there were no signs of trouble in our marriage he seemed happy and i was on top of the world, he had been calling her everyday sometimes 30 times a day and they would talk for hours at a time, he says he only slept with her 3 times yeah right, do you think he was in love with this woman to have devoted so much time to her not me. he still tried to lie when i found out never has really told me everything. he says all the conservations were mostly sex talk yeah right if they only had sex 3 times how much sex could you talk about she knew he was married only after a few months into the affair because he would have to make excuses why he couldn't come over or make any set plans but she continued to see him and have sex she told him your not going to quit calling me or se
2007-02-24 23:30:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
one word... DIVORCE!!! Give him no more of you life. Get everything you can in the divorce and start your life over!
( he can sleep at her place or in his rig!!!)
2007-02-24 23:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your question is "could he be in love with her?", then of course the answer could be yes, but it could really be just about sex as well. If you're asking for advice, the only thing you can do is decide if you want to deal with a cheating spouse or not. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE! So either know now that your husband is and always will be a cheater or divore him before you bring kids into it.
On a side note, if your life is wonderful... maybe an option could be an open relationship. It's all up to you.
2007-02-25 07:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by peachtek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You deserve to be loved with all the body of your lover.. not shared with others.. He should be caring only for you and making your life more and more full.. When the time comes that you can have sex with your man 3 or 4 times every day and night then you will be more fulfilled and more loved!
2007-02-25 07:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a liar and a cheat to have pulled that so soon after your marriage. I would recommend that you separate from him for a few months and see what HE does during that time. if he continues to mess with the other woman and does not dedicate himself to getting back with you, then cut him loose.
2007-02-25 07:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a married truckdriver I'll tell you this don't sound good . If your willing to forgive him , he's gonna have to take a local job so you can keep track of him . but trust will always be a problem
2007-02-25 07:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his butt to the curb a man that cheats doesn't love his wife he surely has proven this by seeing another woman on the side for sex, cut him loose.
2007-02-25 08:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him is the easy answer. But if you really love him (and I don't know why you would put up with him) then you can try counseling or HIS WORD that he will never do it again. ( once a cheat always a cheat) But that is up to you. I feel so bad for you/ I wish you luck with this loser.
2007-02-25 07:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know truck drivers are looser . Have you been to the doctors yet ?? If not you need to have test for any and all kind of sex dizzies. Truck drivers are well known to carry more then
just a load
2007-02-25 07:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You deserve so so much better.This guy's a loser of the first order! Just dump him and move on with your life.It'll hurt a lot...but do it if u love yourself. Good luck
2007-02-25 07:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that the next time he gets back in off the road you won't be there. You deserve and can do better.
2007-02-25 07:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋