Why are people so cruel to me?????????

Question

this one time a girl triped me and made me fall over the last hurtail in pe she nearly cost me a life but she was laghing so i thought it was better just to lagh at my self so i did then she started to call me names know why was she being so mean i thought it was something to lagh about

Answer 1

I know what u must feel...This girl is obviously a bully.. Some of the ways they bully other people are by: calling them names, saying or writing nasty things about them, leaving them out of activities, not talking to them, threatening them, making them feel uncomfortable or scared, taking or damaging their things, hitting or kicking them, or making them do things they don't want to do.
There are a lot of reasons why some people bully.
They may see it as a way of being popular, or making themselves look tough and in charge.
Some bullies do it to get attention or things, or to make other people afraid of them. Others might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They may be being bullied themselves.
Some bullies may not even understand how wrong their behaviour is and how it makes the person being bullied feel.
Some young people are bullied for no particular reason, but sometimes it's because they are different in some way - perhaps it's the colour of their skin, the way they talk, their size or their name.
Sometimes young people are bullied because they look like they won't stand up for themselves. Coping with bullying can be difficult, but remember, you are not the problem, the bully is. You have a right to feel safe and secure.
And if you're different in some way, be proud of it! stand strong. Spend time with your friends - bullies hardly ever pick on people if they're with others in a group.
You've probably already tried ignoring the bully, telling them to stop and walking away whenever the bullying starts.
If someone is bullying you, you should always tell an adult you can trust. This isn't telling tales. You have a right to be safe and adults can do things to get the bullying stopped.
Even if you think you've solved the problem on your own, tell an adult anyway, in case it happens again.
An adult you can trust might be a teacher, school principal, parent, someone from your family, or a friend's parent. If you find it difficult to talk about being bullied, you might find it easier to write down what's been happening to you and give it to an adult you trust.

Answer 2

High school is very rough when it comes to people making fun of each other, or laughing at each other, or pulling pranks on each other.

Hazing is also getting so bad, that some children have been known to die from it, when their peers just thought it was an innocent joke.

She probably did it to make herself look good to other people. You may be getting "picked on" because you're different in some way. You may like a different kind of music. You may have a different skin color. You may dress differently. And if her friends think negatively of you at all, she's going to pick on you, to make herself look better to them.

But don't change just because of that! While it may be cool to be just like everyone else right now, that changes once you are done with school. If you know why you are 'different' to them, try embracing it, and finding other people BEYOND your school, that have similar interests, to share it with you.

(By the way, almost 15 years ago, growing up in Atlanta, I was the picked-on kid because I was white, and listened to country music.)

Answer 3

Perhaps it's because you cannot spell and your grammar is non existent. Seriously though, stand up for yourself. Do you have zero self respect? Don't take any s**t from anyone. No one will respect you if you don't respect yourself. Stop trying so hard to please everyone else. You are attracting this negative response from people. Watch/read : "The Secret."

Answer 4

She almost cost you a life.? Are you pregnant or did you mean your life..

I suggest when you get in the locker room with her grab her by her hair and aim for a locker and when she gets up and/or regains her vision ask her if she wants to laugh about that. ?

Answer 5

honest some are just mean,, an some get off by seeing other get hurt,,, but that all part of life, ii my self would never hurt a person to get a laugh, ,,,

Answer 6

Some people r made that way.

Answer 7

shes just a b itch! stand up for self, girl! there is no need to fight, but dont be a door mat either!

Answer 8

shes jealous because your a fox. Get some bigger Friends

Answer 9

keep your smile no matter what happens and stay away from people like that dumb rat !

always remember this quote:
"He Who Angers You Conquers You"

Answer 10

the world is filled with millions of such ppl, we have to face them with courage, willpower n confidence or they'll oppress us.