2007-02-24 22:56:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whats bird? r u winged?
2007-02-24 22:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
being a man u know little of how a woman feels after she gives birth. her hormones are messed up and not understanding or wanting to understand u r pushing her further away. u made a promise to love this woman until death do u part not until she loses her sex drive. u r clearly not a good husband or u would not contemplate sleping with slappers. why dont u try being more helpful around the house with the baby, it will pay off it will show u care, give ur wife affection without expecting sex, she will love u for that u are being very selfish and a horrible husband and father for even thinking of betraying your family, shame on u. take a look in the mirror would u sleep with someone like u? then again its sounds like u have no morals so u probably would. u get what u give in life it doesnt sound like u are giving very much but selfishness, sex is not everything and if u betray ur wife u will pay for it later
2007-02-25 10:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by alroka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I take it you mean gave birth??? How long ago?
No you should not sleep around. Marriage is about so much more than sex. I'm sure your wife is tired looking after the house, a baby and YOU!
I could be extremely harsh here but I'll refrain. I hate that type of thing etc so cannot look at this objectively... sorry!
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just thought of something else.... why don't you make her feel special - get someone to look after baby/child and take her for a nice meal etc....
2007-02-24 23:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi, i think you should give your lady sometime, and just stick by her when a women gives birth well some women i think they feel like umm! they have a one tracked mind and that is set on there baby, explain to her that your feeling under pressure dont make her feel guilty, ask her what she thinks you should do about that or how long will this situation be. basically i am 20 i have had 2 children and i guess that is what i think so! good luck. It will make matters more dificult for the 3 of you if you sleep around.
2007-02-24 23:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by kerryanne l 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i haven't slept with my wife for 6 years as in the SLEEP but i would not leave her or mess around if you love some one and they still love you after giving birth as i presume you meant not bird then try to understand she might feel let down if you are not helping her with things she also might think that all you want is sex and that don't make a marriage my friend.
2007-02-25 00:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by P felix 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think and hope you meant birth.....You are so insensitive that you can just start sleeping around while your wife is struggling physically and emotionally with 2 babies.....you and the real baby..Are you together just because of sex.?Answer that question and then take the Best possible option.Good luck!!!!1
2007-02-25 07:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by mwihakz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not enough information. Did she give birth last week or 5 years ago?
Must talk to her and see whats going on, if it has been a while...not about sleeping around, its about being intimate...you can masturbate and be well for a short while, but you should be concerned with her and her health??
2007-02-24 23:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gave birth? No don't sleep around. Birth is traumatic and there is a lot of depression afterwards. Be nice to her
2007-02-28 08:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Professor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to sleep around, leave! What kind of a question is this? Do you love her? If you love her, then talk to her. She may have post par-tum depression. Or she could be fearful of getting pregnant again. Women's hormones change after giving birth to a baby. You are asking a question, so that you can get someone to tell you to go for it. I am sure that some will. You though will have to live with what you choose to do.
2007-02-24 23:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
This would hert her more than u could ever imigine. She already has to fight with her body hormones and weight gain not to mention she feels unatractive as it is this would crush her. This is a joke right? Cause no man has ever sounded so stupid to me in all of my life. This is the part where i sould wish u luck but i have no good wishes 4 u at all.
2007-02-25 00:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by ChristeeBuck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't listen to these ars holes. Your wife is going through postpartum depression. Her hormones are out of whack. It happens to all women to a certain degree after child birth. She needs to get treated...and its treated easily. So until then, keep humping the ol' fist and preserve your family! I'm sure this isn't what you wanted to hear. But give it time and it'll get better.
2007-02-24 23:28:24 · answer #11 · answered by Crazy Bi Chick 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋