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my bf is married and he told me they're not having sex for 4yrs now with his wife because his wife is 8yrs.older than him and she doesnt have orgasm.So,it's okey with his wife to let my bf to go anywhere and have sex with other girls.But he stopped and stuck with me for 3yrs.now.But I can't accept the fact that he's still with her even no sex at all anymore..My bf want me to have 3 some,with 1 girl,me and him.But I don't like.Why does my bf want me to experience 3some with him if he loves me?He went back home 2weeks ago to his wife and he sent me email,he said if I have a friend(a girl)and want to have sex with me,he let me try it if I will like it or not.If I will like it,we were going to have 3some the next time he will visit me..but really,I dont like it.And he wants me to take a picture of myself naked so,I will surely not to leave him..what do I have to do?

Answer 1

This is so outside Gods will

Get another BF.

Or be ready for ALL the consequences

Answer 2

You are not stupid. This man don't want you for anything good. Why would you let him make a wh0re out of you? Any man that has a wife and trust me if she have not had an orgasm, then there's something he isn't doing right. You have already degraded yourself, because you stoop so low as to have a married man and he's a lair. I can't believe that you're so naive that you are asking, what should you do. Call the wife,and tell her what's been said and be done with the whole situation.This is how people get killed. Sex is not all there is to a marriage, he love his wife and yet he have no respect nor Honor for her and on the other hand he does not love or respect you either. What he is telling you is... you are not enough for him, he can do what he want to do and he can also get you to do what he want you to do. He has proved his point. You are asking a question about having a threesome and you don't want to do it. Well you're already having a threesome, You, Him and his wife. Do you actually think that he is not touching her?

Answer 3

The guy is no good...#1- he is married, #2- He is NOT faithfull to his WIFE........#3- There is a reason she doesn't want to have sex with him (hints the 3some he asked YOU for). If he had any respect for himself, his wife, or you he would get a divorce FIRST, Pursue you like a lady then you take it from there. Here is some advice NEVER give a man that kind of leverage to take naked pictures of you (I have been there). By giving him that kind of leverage you are giving him power and control in the "relationship". If he TRUELY "respected" you he would not have to "convince" you to do anything you are not comfortable with. He is a Player girl, get out while you can. Because what will happen next is you two wil get in a heated debate about something, he will pull out the pictures and threaten to expose you, which will make you stay in a unhealthy, unhappy "relationship". I don't care how good the lovin is........I love myself more!

Answer 4

You, like many others have been fooled by this guy! He is married! He will say anything to get what he wants. You are a way of full filling his fantasy's. A married man always says that he doesn't get sex at home. They are liars that's why he cheats! He lies to his wife , cheats on her lies about where he is and who he is with. Do you think that you are any better than her? After all he loved her enough to marry her! Dump this idiot and realize that you have been his side kick for 3 years and he is still married to her. How much respect for you do you think he has? NONE. Now he is asking you to help him with his latest fantasy. Don't you think you deserve more in a relationship? This one , 3 years proof, is going no where permanently.

Answer 5

This man is using you for sex. Can't you see that? He is not getting sex at home, so is using that piss poor excuse and blaming everything on his wife. I am sure that he is not a good husband to her, as you can see he is cheating on her, and lying about what he does behind her back...is that really someone of value and worth and someone to respect? Anybody that lies, and plays mind games to manipulate your feelings is not a good person. I am sorry, but, I went through the same experience with someone once and it was awful. However, once I stepped away from the situation and saw how evil this person was, I realized that I deserve so much better. If you have some great people in your life, good family and friends, spend time with them instead..
take a class, better yourself, but, do not let this person into your life anymore. Value yourself more.

Answer 6

first off y did you find a man with a wife if hes married than there will be no true love in that relationship he just wants the sex so the idea of staying with him was out the door before you met him.

second him not respecting your desertion not to have a 3some is wrong to how can he be intimate with you if hes thinking about the other girl in the room.

don't take the pics if you don't want to all hes going to do is black male you with them.

Answer 7

First of all, why did you get interested in a Married man? and second of all, do you really think he Loves you,when he tells you all that stuff about his Wife? And to make matters worse he wants you to have, as you say, a threesome with another girl, and you. If he wants a picture of you, Naked, where do you think your picture is going to be posted? For goodness sakes find yourself another guy and next time be sure he is single and keep your eyes, and ears open, when they want something from you and they do not give anything in return.

Answer 8

Number 1, every married man who has a girlfriend who will have sex with him has a wife who is older, or frigid, or doesn't understand him, or, I could go on and on. Number 2, the reason he wants a threesome is, he already knows that you'll have sex and a relationship with a married man who isn't leaving his wife, so he feels safe trying to push the borders. Get smart, and get out. You'll always be the one he's with for sex, if you do something he doesn't like, or don't agree to something he wants, he's outta there. After all, he has nothing invested in you, except time!

Answer 9

I understand how you feel. I think you should search somewhere else, i know it's hard, but surely you want to be the only woman in your boyfriends heart, not just a sex partner. Wouldn't it be nice to have someone to yourself telling you how much he loves you, and helping out around the house and stuff, then maybe starting a family? There are so many guys out there, and you will find mr right, but this guy blatantly isn't him. Your right, if he did truly love you, he would divorce his wife, go with you, and not fantasise about having threesomes. This guy should grow up. You know you deserve better than this babe. He is using you i'm afraid. But you WILL overcome it and move on!

I hope this helped you honey, and good luck! :D xXxXxXxXxX

Answer 10

For three years, u believed this rubbish. Babe its an apparent lie that almost evry married unfaithful man gives to the side dish. that and Im leaving her for you or Im in it for the kids. He knew she was old when they got married and its only because he doesnt know how to handle her such that she never gets an O. Any way even if she doesnt, she is the one to get worried.
He used you. And because he doesnt respect women, he cheats on the wife, finds sombody to use and now wants the third person.
My view: he is selfish and only think of himself.

Get out before losing it all( the little self-respect left)

All the best

Answer 11

OK why are you with a married man, and don't tell me he is not having sex with his wife if so then divorce
don't let no one take naked picture of (next ting you kow it will be all over the internet
if he want a treesome ge his wife to do it mabey that might give her an orgasm
LET THIS MAN GO
Get yourself your own man, you deserve respect
not a lying cheating jerk