They keep saying ‘funny’ highly innapropriate things about something. I don’t find them funny and at the moment I just try to ignore them, but it’s not halping teh problem as they will not stop. Sometimes I laugh, but that would only be because I couldn’t help it. As these jokes are very innapropriate and should not be yelled around the school, if anyone has any suggestions as to what I can do to aliviate or remove the problem, it would be greatly appriciated. Just to clarify, these 'friends' I speak of are really my friends, so forget about saying that they aren't my friends if they hurt me so. Don’t hesitate in asking any further questions.
2007-02-24 20:58:53 · 15 answers · asked by B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't laugh at these jokes if you don't find them funny. make up jokes about them so they can get a taste of their own medicine.. try and act like they don't mean anything to you.. or tell them that they rily annoy you..!
2007-03-02 06:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by original girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heay friend,,having a friend is a treasure but if friends r just making jokes only to annoy me they r not friends any more
but put into consideration that friends may make jokes just for fun not to annoy u so be wise before making any dum actions with them
my advice to u
1)try to show them that u r not having fun by these kind of jokes
2)if jokes they make upon u depends on some habbit u used to do,,,u have to try to change this habbit immediatly as for sure it is not a good habbit
3)try to get unfavorable jokes about ur friends which will annoy them just to show them that this habbit is bad and they have to stop them but this way is the last way to use
2007-03-04 17:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by cartooneg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's one for ya. My older and younger brother both love me, BUT they also take great pride in telling complete strangers inappropriate things about me at every opportunity. I can't take my bro's away, or stop being their sister, so we're in the same boat. I suggest you come up with slams against them for a little while. Make fun of them, stop taking it, dish it out a while.
I've tried my absolute best to convince my bro's to please stop embarrassing me all the time. Did it help? Not a chance. If these guys are your friends, you'll figure it out. God I feel for you. lol
I don't normally suggest playing games like this, but I don't see any other option man. Best of luck!!!!
2007-02-24 21:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by daughter_helping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Really laugh about it, and make up some jokes about yourself too. That makes you a bad target for their jokes. Everything they can say you can do much better.
2. Start making up inappropriate jokes about them. maybe they won't like a taste of their own medicine.
3. Talk about it and tell you don't like it and ask them to stop.
2007-02-24 21:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by izzy9954 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about replying with something like;
"Yeah, that's getting kind of old now. Can we change the track a little?"
Your friends will automatically defend themselves ("You know we don't mean it...") but it gives you a chance to say that, to be honest, it's not hugely appreciated and, as much as you love them to bits, it's a little hurtful. It'll feel very confrontational, but it's probably the best way to approach it without coming across to them as whiney.
2007-02-24 21:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your best fiend in that group aside and say "I need to tell you something. I have this group of friends who are always making hella inaprpriate jokes about me and I hate it. They just wont seem to stop. What would you do if you were me?" They'll get the picture.
2007-03-04 17:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told them how much this hurts you? If they are really your friends and they know how much they are upsetting you, then they should stop. Every time you laugh along you're letting them think that it does not bother you. Try being honest and see what happens.
2007-02-24 21:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by tiger lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you prefer to talk to her and be rather severe and tell her to heavily provide up this. till she' an entire *****, she'll pay attention in case you clarify to her your on no account lesbian and its rather no longer humorous. If she rather doesnt provide up even once you communicate, provide her a flavor of her own drugs. discover some thing which you would be able to tease her approximately that embarasses her and gets to her till she gets the image and supply up. solid luck:)
2016-11-25 22:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by lacue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
laughing at it, just lets them know that it OK to keep it up, it's telling them you approve of their tactic. And tell them you don't like this behavior. If they are really true friends they will understand, and hopfully stop. And wake up friends don't do that to friends.
2007-03-04 14:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Peppermint Patti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try employing one of my favorite sayings: Show me some respect, and I'll return the favor. If they don't know what that means, tell them in detail about what you don't like.
2007-03-04 11:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋