physical attraction for him? I've been married for 5 years and I love my husband mentally, I think he's a good cool husband, but there's no physical attraction for him to have sex with him? Is there something wrong with our relationship?
2007-02-24 20:30:12 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm...maybe to some extent, there may be trouble brewing in your relationship. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? Maybe if you open the lines of communication to him, he may take more consideration in his appearance? I know you can't change him, only he can do that, but if you communicate with him on how both of you can feel the same towards each other, mentally and physically, things should work out.
2007-02-24 20:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I can say is that I love my wife very much, but I have no physical attraction to her anymore. So, I suppose it is possible for it to be the other way around.
Yes to the other question too, though. There is something wrong as long as you are not satisfying him sexually and he is not satisfying you sexually.
In men, at least, sex is a driving physical need which can cause overwhelming temptation to have an affair or step outside of the marriage if his sexual needs are not being met at home. If he's healthy, that itch is always there and he'll be wanting to find some way to scratch it. Morally, it's not the right thing to do, but the temptation will likely be very, very strong.
For a marriage to remain strong, both partners must make it a priority to fulfill each others sexual needs. The difference is that a man cannot perform unless he is aroused.
2007-02-24 20:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously at first had some sort of physical attraction for him right? This is usually a common thing when two people get married and fall into what you call the "comfort zone." But beware if there is no excitement, passion, or sex in a marriage, then later on down the road when a women he meets comes up to him and offers him that then he might stray
2007-02-24 20:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to dictate to your mind what's suit for you since heart is only a symbol for love. Well if I am in your situation being married for 5 yrs without so much physical contact. I think it would be difficult for us to enjoy our married life and I wonder now why you marry him in the first place???
2007-02-24 20:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by the wanderer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you can love your hubby, but not be sexually attracted. Your naturally not being fulfilled in that way w/him. As you get older, your taste will change. You might catch yourself staring at that one guy at the store or day dreaming some naughty thoughts. It's totally natural. You might have to tell him how you really feel . Stay true to yourself. Just don't cheat. that is a moral issue.
2007-02-24 20:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine this would nicely be a habit problem. at the same time as the strain heats up it type of sounds like he would get out of control. per chance at the same time as he turned right into a baby, some thing had got here about and that is the in effortless words way he can deal with it. My exhusband would carry out a touch weird and wonderful issues like you said, at the same time as the strain became intense. I requested my wide-spread practitioner about those behaviors and said it wasn't favourite. I talked to a counselor about what he became doing and attempting to discern out. My ex became scared to get help because he idea that they'd deliver him to the looney bin. We ended up in divorce too because i could not cope jointly with his issues and mine jointly. per chance there is a few thing incorrect with him, and what he's doing is favourite to him, yet would rigidity you to the point that you provide up on the marriage. Been there earlier. wish you exercising consultation what's incorrect.
2016-12-04 22:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you married your best friend, not a soul mate. Or there could possibly just not be enough romance in the relationship, too much comfort.
2007-02-24 20:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are mental. And I'll bet you would be even more mental if he got some strange action because you are not into him.
Pull your head out of your mental @ss before its too late.
2007-02-24 20:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WIth today's modern doppleganger technology there is no reason for a woman to remain unsatisfied. You should encorporate dopplegangers into your love play with your husband.
2007-02-24 20:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by willberb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you if you have kids then think of them first if not it sounds like your trying to find a reason to step out so maybe he would be better off if you was gone.
2007-02-24 20:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Leo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋