Is it bad to wish your ex husband gets hit by a bus?

Question

or mamed by a wild pack of wildabeasts, or infected with a disease, or kicked in the nuts. i wish all kindsa bad things happen to him.

Answer 1

It depends...do you want these things to kill him or just rip off his penis. I personally would go for the later. More pain and has to live with it longer

Answer 2

Quite understandable especially since he seems to have cause you so much misery and grief. However, if this consumes your every last minute of your waking day you will only eat yourself up inside and probably make yourself sick. Having these negative thoughts about annihilating him really serves him and not you so what you are doing is still letting him get to you. In a way he is still controlling you. Compounded by the frustration that these things may not happen only further aggravates the problem. Somehow, sometime, you are going to have to dispense with all of your anger and rage before it totally envelopes you and causes you to go completely insane. Start thinking about good things. For instance, feel how good it is to have him out of your life and to have regained your freedom and independence. Consider how you will avoid making the same mistakes again. Redirect your time and energy into making good choices for yourself. Do something good for yourself (excluding alcohol) and know that you don't need to feel guilty or selfish for wanting to have these good things. Also realize that it's necessary for you and you are entitled to do so. So stop obsessing and start living and see where that takes you.

Answer 3

I used to wish that mine would get taken by a shark while he was diving! Now things are different and I'm older and wiser.Try to stop thinking about him as its all really a waste of energy and you could be using that energy for more pleasant things, thinking like this only brings bad back to you and you feel worse and then think more bad things etc. Its time to move on and appreciate the fact that you don't have to wake up and see him in the morning isn't it? Be strong I know you can do it!

Answer 4

no i would 2

Answer 5

nope.. not until it happens at least..

i hope you'd feel bad if you found out that he really did get maimed by wildabeasts.

but if you were still laughing after hearing the news.. that would be bad..

exception!
if he ever cheated on you, then there's nothing wrong with wishing his nuts being kicked. you can even laugh if it happens :)

Answer 6

No, it's only bad if you physically push him under a bus yourself, inject him with a disease, get your pet wildebeasts to attack him, kick him in the nuts yourself (or hire someone to do any of the above). Merely wishing for these things is just normal...and kinda fun to fantasize about. Been there! :-) The thoughts go away in time, I promise.

Answer 7

Yup, it is very bad!! Listen, I went through the same thing and who did it hurt? No one except me! I was the one getting uptight, getting queasy stomach pains and tension headaches. was he (the ex) affected?? Not in the least!! So better to be calm and rational I know it takes time but what ever someone deserves whether good or bad believe me they will get it. I/o what goes around comes around--it may take time but justice will be served!
Keep Cool

Answer 8

No I don't think it's bad at all, I feel that way about my ex bf. I think it's normal and it's part of the process of letting go and putting the seal to the end of a relationship. It will definitely take time, but in the end you may be able to forgive him and all of his short comings. Good luck!

Answer 9

LOLzzzzz whew** extra effective that im not your ex-female buddy ha ha ha advance up! :-) each and every thing this is happening in our existence is for our own good. our studies provide us training to benefit and memories to contemplate. you're nonetheless affected and you nonetheless love her that's why you're wishing that.. yet ei... is that okay to you if she is happy in her existence superb now mutually as you're nonetheless there sitting in one corner unhappy packed with bitterness wishing her to get hit by skill of a bus? if she moved on you are able to pass on too. you have each and all of the splendid in this international to be happy and at peace too. learn the artwork of forgiving and letting pass, you are able to in basic terms acquire happiness and peace by skill of doing that. existence is in basic terms too short relish it! do not waste it sluggish wishing badluck for different particularly advance your self, like it and finished so once you got here across the splendid individual you're waiting!

Answer 10

no, it's not bad at all. In fact, I'd like to toss my ex in front of the bus along with yours. Only if the bus is going fast enough, so there's enough momentum for the bus to flatten the both of them. It's your question, so it's only fair your former "man" gets what he deserves. I want no survivors here. Not that I'm in any way bitter. No not me.

Answer 11

I emphathize with you......my husband found greener pasture in those weldebeast zoos and found someone else, while I was 5 months pregnant with my second. He is Hispanic and Catholic so he had to lie to get the parish to marry them. My daughter came home crying because of that and I made him read our original marraige cert. to our daughter just so she would stop crying.

Guys are such jerks sometimes, I feel with you and you are not alone, so hang in there.....

By the way, lighting themselves on fire is more painful, that is how I wished he would go.....