ok...im bi and my gf wanted us 2 have sex...im a virgin(with gurls) i have dated many before her and i know that its wut i want! but wut exactly do i do?say we were both first timers...say only was a first timer(4 future refrence)i neeed 2 know!cause i want it 2 but im ...not so much "scared" but...confused i guess...like idk...its just weird
2007-02-24 19:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by hopeless_romantic_♥ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
p.s.
i cant go 2 "mom" and "dad" cause they dont know!
2007-02-24 19:53:12 · update #1
Just go with the flow. Stop worrying so much. Touch her and do things to her that you like done to you. It's really not that difficult. As a woman, you know what a woman's body likes. It really is that simple. The first time just use your imagination. Then if you like you can go with some toys. Good luck and stop worrying so much. You'll be fine. Promise.
2007-02-24 19:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bisexual myself see how the first time for me was just like you !!! Had plenty of gurlfriend but never did anyone for a long time . This is how I did it and it work !!! I just though about a man with me and not a gurl and it work forreal . believe do that and after the first time u never b scary again trust cause u will like it so much then yall be having sex all the time !!!
2007-02-25 03:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll...So like you dont have to go down on her the first time...I would say..Just kiss for awhile..caress her body.. until you cant take it anymore...and need to feel her naked body next to you.... that alone is enough to have an orgasm with her...There is a certain position in which to girls can be naked and both take pleasure..OR touching her down there...very gently..if she is wet maybe you can slid one or two or three in...All this can be okay to begin Good Luck!
2007-02-25 03:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experiment with your own body to learn some of the pleasure spots. Try some of those things on her and pay attention to her reactions. If something gets no response from her, then try something else. If something just drives her crazy, use it!
2007-02-25 13:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure you're bisexual? If you're finding it weird, maybe you're not as curious as you think you are, and theres NOTHING wrong with that. Honestly....you should check out some "instructional videos" if you catch my drift. You know, the kind the internet is famous for...
2007-02-25 03:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by indieforcutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My half-sister is a leso, but serously u have to munch on her carpet. You can kind of chew on her rug(short n' curlies) 4 a bit. Then u can go from there...
2007-02-25 03:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your Mom & Dad will have the best answer for you... god I feel sorry for them. All that hard work they put into you and this is the thanks they get.... a daughter they can't talk to their friends about or brag on.
2007-02-25 03:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋