Someone I used to be friends with in high school was shot in the head and is brain dead. Why don't I feel bad

Question

I used to be friends with this person in high school but they would always tell me how ugly I was and pretty much damaged my self esteem. We eventually ended our frienship when she switched schools. Now 10 years later, I came across this person on the computer and saw that they had half naked pics of themselves up. Although I'm attractive, her tearing down my self-esteem 10 years ago came back to haunt me...Now I just found out that this person got shot in the head and is on life support and I don't feel bad at all. I'm actually anxious to find out whether or not they are going to live or die although I wouldn't wish this to happen on anyone. Why do I feel this way? I should feel bad, but I feel anything.

Answer 1

Hello! See? Told ya!

I'm sorry for your former "friend". She must've made you feel really bad for you to not feel bad for her, but if that's the case, so be it. You're entitled to your feelings. I know if I had somebody who tormented me like she tormented you, I wouldn't feel bad either. That kind of abuse really sticks with you.

Answer 2

I'm sorry about that. But i think you don't feel bad because you already ended your friendship with your friend. Actually, it's normal if you don't feel bad for someone you haven't meet for 10 years. So, don't regret your self for that feeling. That kind of things only hurt you more.