how do i know if im bi???

Question

im soo confused about it...

Answer 1

If you're attracted to males and females. It may be confusing to have those feelings, but if you have those feelings, then so be it. Go with it. Disregard what everybody says would be reasonable for a person in your shoes.

Answer 2

It depends. Have you been hurt by a member of the opposite sex and is this the primary reason ? If so, you probably aren't. Also, you may just be curious. All people can pick out positive features about the same sex, but I imagine that you could recognize when these feelings are stronger than just observations. Give it time and figure out who you are before you make any major decisions. Love isn't black and white and it just takes time. Don't worry about it and just take it as it comes. If someone wants to be in a relationship with you and you aren't sure, hold off and find out. No one can force you into a relationship you don't want to be in. It may just be a phase or it could be more. Only time can tell.

Answer 3

You won't know until you try it out many times.....if you really like women over men and don't want to have anything to do with men besides friends that means you are a lesbian, if you like men and women you are most likely bi. I'm bi there is nothing to be ashamed of:) Now if you are just wanting to experiment with a girl that is normal and does not mean you are bi. It means you just want to test the waters.

Answer 4

God, I do so sympathize. But your age is very important here. If you're like 14, don't worry about it. Everybody your age has some kind of confusion, and they'll never tell you about it., so don't ask. It wouldn't hurt to ask for help, especially if you trust your parents, but I think you can work it out on your own, if painfully. But at that age everything is painful.

On the other hand, if you're 18, you ought to have it sorted out by now. If you're still not sure, please see either a school counsellor or a psychologist. They can help you understand who you are. Once you understand who you are it won't hurt so much being who you are.

In either case, please don't email me, as I can't reply to this sort of question, just for my own protection. I wish I could help, but there are people closer to you who can help and want to.

Answer 5

First of all, don't label yourself. It's really not necessary unless you just need a word to describe yourself.
Secondly, If you enjoy sex with both men and women than you could consider yourself bi. If you've tried sex with the same sex just outta curiousity and it isn't really something you'd do again, then you are not bi. You just had a gay experience.

Most importantly, If you could fall in love with a member of either gender than you my friend are bi.

I am bisexual. I love people based on who they are and if I'm attracted to them. I am most generally attracted to women but am married to a man because he is who I fell in love with.

Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Ok well is it the first time you have doubt about being heterosexual? If it is then just wait it out because everybody at one point question their sexuality. And if you start noticing a stronger erge of same sex then maybe you are.

Answer 7

bi, meaning bisexual?
if you engage in sexual activity with both males and females (not necessarily at the same time) then you are bisexual. it's fairly straightforward (no pun intended).

Answer 8

if you feel good being in love with a guy the same way you should feel like when your in love with a girl

Answer 9

If your attracted to guys and girls.Do you crave kisses..cuddles..and so on from both..If yes..then your bi

Answer 10

do you like sex with both men AND women?
do you fancy both male AND female bodies?
its pretty simple...
yes= bi
no= not bi
chances are good that if you have to ask, you probably are
good luck