2007-02-24 19:14:07 · 20 answers · asked by deevapinto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Most often than not, when children witness how the parents fight, it might cause them a traumatic experience and they will become emotionally disturbed. The emotional disturbance could affect their academic performance and lost interest in different things. They'll be less motivated to become progressive in everyway and it may lead them to be rebelious of their parents. Sometimes they do not just turn rebelious, they may even lost respect to their parents because the parents themeselves do not show respect to their children
2007-02-24 19:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Maricor D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the fragility of the child, AND on the way the parents fight.
In my case, I NEVER saw my parents fight when I was young, and it actually turned out to be detrimental for me and for my brother (they later told us, after they divorced, that they purposely didn't fight in front of us because they didn't want to "scar" us).
The major problem with that came up when I was a little older, and my dad had remarried. Whenever my dad and stepmom fought, from then on out, I was always afraid that they were going to split up, too, probably because I wasn't used to seeing it.
I think that when parents argue in a healthy way (ie. listening to the other person, no matter how mad they are at each other... speaking calmly, without screaming at or demeaning one another...not walking out in the middle of a fight, etc. etc.), the children grow up learning that it is ok to have differences, as long as it's dealt with in a respectful way. I also believe that they will grow up having less insecurities about their own marriages/relationships. :)
2007-02-25 03:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't good, for one thing. It makes a child's life unstable always wondering who is right or wrong, who's side are they on, what did I do to make them fight, etc......
Please fight fairly, within closed doors and not within range of children. Also after the fight don't hold grudges or make smart remarks, children pick up on that and see one parent as the loser and might not have a good relationship with them because of it. Children learn from what their parent's teach them.
2007-02-25 03:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, Why parents fight? Why they fight in front of Children? which parent does not fight?
Parents fight is common in all houses. one way it is a school for their children how to fight.
It is very dangerous impact on Children. it takes their peace of mind, it reduces their social respect, it create mental torture, it will detach parent and children, it makes them be away from home.
2007-02-25 05:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by venkatesh.s s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear, anxiety, a desire to flee or hide.
If the parents keep it civil and resolve it well, then kids also learn that good outcomes of disagreements are possible and that their home is stable. That's a good thing.
If the parents are verbally or physically abusive, the kids learn those same behaviors and may well end up using them.
2007-02-25 03:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Investor 2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a fact of life that people are going to fight. But there's no reason to say nasty things or threaten anyone with violence. If I couldn't keep the argument civil in front of my kids, I'd leave until i cooled off.....I was told long ago that you can't UNSAY something, even if you later apologize for saying something cruel , you still said it.
2007-02-25 03:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by raggnaar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When parants fight, it will give very bad effects. Children will be tense and use weeping thats make them weak in hearts. Theie education will also suffer and memory will come down.
As they will remeber fighting, their progress of health will also slow down.
2007-02-25 05:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by SKM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They become nervous, scared because there helpless, angry because you as mom let it happen,they become disfunctional. They are children and they need to feel safe and loved. There home is suppose to be there security. What are you doing. If it's not good than let it go. Be strong and keep your self respect. Act like adults not ghetto! The kids come FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-25 03:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by ro2555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moreover parents do not fight but it happens in few cases who have lots of burden on them , in such a situation the children should make out the their fault very they have gone wrong & to tell when they r relaxed.be always with god talk with god have faith in god.&convey this message to all ur parents to .always love ur parents ,try to care them as much u can.make happy surroundings
2007-02-25 03:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by snehal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the same as on parents when their children fight. do u fight with ur siblings?
2007-02-25 04:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by shilpa k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋