in this country of hypocisy,fake and selfishness how to find real good humans as friends?

Question

Iam from INDIA.i feel that our country lacks real good people...wherever i go whatever i do, i dont find real good people to be with...all people like to just laugh, enjoy, give bad words and live mean life....what should i do? Even i like to enjoy but iam not mean....i know everywhere in world we find such people but south asia is a real hypocrite zone...... what should i do find good modern people who are really good from heart and not like others.......??

Answer 1

there is no denying the fact that its hard to find honest and good people!!!!! but it is not impossible also!!!
SOMEDAY SOMEWHERE U WILL DEFINITELY FIND GOOD PEOPLE!!!!
BEST OF LUCK.........

Answer 2

Dear nitin, with respect to your personal experiences you cannot generalise the entire population of India. Let me share my experiences. Since past nine years I've been travelling ot different parts of the country. I've been to a lot of cities, and a lot of villages. I've never experienced any such thing anywhere. Instead I've always found good people. Infact, there were few occasions, when I was in pretty awkward conditions and a few unknown people around helped me out.

You said that all people just laugh, enjoy and give bad words. Well how does their laughing and enjoying trouble you. And about giving bad words, I think these days it's a trend to use those slangs with your sentences. They are not actually meant to offend anyone. Seems that you have developped an inferiority complex.

Buddy, most of the times it depends on your own interactions with the public. If you push someone accidentally and say sorry I'm sure that person won't say a single word to you. But if you keep doing it and never think of apologies, you are definitely in trouble for a while.

To find nice people be nice at your own heart first. The way you criticize others and generalize the whole mass based on experiences with a handful of people simply suggests that you yourself are not of the kind you are looking for.

God Bless You...

:-)

Answer 3

I've searched for the same thing and never found it. You may not either. American people are so messed up that they do not know they are missing a basic human ingredient.

I finally decided to keep my own company along with a good solid relationship with my immediate family. That seems to work.

Answer 4

I have found that some of the best people I know are my neighbors! We get together, chat, laugh, listen to music and have a great time. I also know that they watch out for us and we watch out for them. A few days ago my neighbor came to my home and shoveled snow from my drive and walks, he also did this for many other neighbors. We trust each other enough to leave spare house keys with each other, to care for their homes if they are on vacation and help them out when they are ill.