how would u feel if ur ex husband has some new girfreidns that are obsessed on him so they writing you telling u all this crap you dont wanna hear like all the horfrible stuff they said about you and how many ppl they are having sex wit and " how great they are " ?? where does this bitc get off doing that? i dont care about him or his life. shuld i go ahead an tell him he has a stalker on his hands and ruin it for her, for putting me through the inconvenince and emotional pain?
2007-02-24 19:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they writing me on chat. so i know i can block i already did but i feel like the emotional toll has already been taken.
2007-02-24 19:10:16 · update #1
I don't care what they say or do with him and wish them luck.
2007-02-24 19:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why are you reading the letters in the first place. How about "return to sender"? Problem solved. If you don't read it then you can't be upset by it. Whether or not some girl is stalking him is not your business. It seems that she is stalking YOU so you need to worry about your own self. You should tell him that this girl is bothering you though to have him tell her to stop and if all else fails file a harassment complaint with the police and every time she bothers you file a complaint.
2007-02-25 03:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my x husbands 2nd wife was like that.. (me being his first , and he's now on his 3rd.. but anyways) she never wrote me, she'd call me, and not only would she call me , but her mother would call me as well when he pissed her off.. telling me i needed to do something about my x husband, lol it made me laugh, his wife would call and tell me all the things he was doing to her, and how he felt about the kids (ours) she'd tell me that he didnt think our son was his because he has blue eyes even though he's the spitting image of his father.. I actually found it comical for the most part, and the funny thing is she gave me so much information that the next time we had to go to court, that i actually used it against him in court.. because she did tell me so much..
I suggest since u dont like this situation that you write her back, and tell her that if she ever contacts u again whether its via email, mail, phone or in person, that u will not hesitate, to haul her butt into court on harassment charges, and then sign it.. have a nice day.. lol.. and send it signed return reciept that way u have proof that she recieved it, and keep a copy for ur records that way u have it as proof..
Dont let the mentally disturbed get to u..
2007-02-25 03:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like your name says, your a lady and you need to try and remember that! I had the same thing happen to me but just know that later when the chick is thrown to the curb you can look back and say that you were the better person because you would never cause someone that much pain. Then again you can do what I wanted to do and just kick her butt. Good luck
2007-02-25 03:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps it's not that these girlfriends are stalkers or whatnot. perhaps they are basking in the glow they they are/were a part of his life now and you're not. i would imaging that they are also trying to seek information from you about your ex husband. women are full of motives. hehe. we are very changeable creatures. so maybe you should put your foot down on this and tell them to stop. if not, there is a delete button.
2007-02-25 03:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he knows what she is doing and if it still bothers you like that don't even read what is written. Get away from them completely. Don't stoop to their level and try to get back at anyone just ignore them like you would a 2 year old throwing a tantrum.
2007-02-25 03:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it in stride. My ex's girlfirend CALLS me and whines about how she has waited 10 years for him to marry her and to have children with him...She whines about the way he treats her, barking orders at her like "sit" "stay" as if she were a trained puppy..last time she whined I simply told her "well, YOU wanted my life so damn bad now that you got it what are you complaining about?"
2007-02-25 03:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay calm. He might just be trying to get a rise out of you or set you up for something far more sinister. I'm sure he knows what's going on.
2007-02-25 03:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by rayth_rizel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably treated them badly and they are just seeking some kind of revenge on him. at least u know he didn't treat them any better than he did u. just block them and do not lower yourself or compromise your dignity to respond to these women.
2007-02-25 09:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUP! do what you gotta do.....these sound like a bunch of crazy beeyotches just waiting to get busted.
2007-02-25 03:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋