Girls or Guys..Please.. what does this mean?
Some my crush sends me this after I send her a dozen roses for Vday: "Iam sorry for being confused about things but i just want you to know that I completely care about you and really do miss you..Ps will you be by Valentine?" She has been somewhat MIA ..lots of mixed signals from her...She claims she wants to see me in a few weeks when I return..BUT I think she'll just go MIA again..What are your thoughts on the message n her thinking..I was the first girl she ever slept with.. What is she confused about?
2007-02-24 18:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I poster the above a few days after Vday and its now the 25th....we have not spoke..no call from her...I think that when I arrive to town I wont call her..Unless she attempts to reach me...I m tired of trying...It doesnt have to be this hard? Does it?
2007-02-24 19:00:22 · update #1
Oh hey, I am guy and a straight one at that. So I have no way of knowing what it feels like to be a woman in love/lust for another woman. I mean, I don't know how to appreciate that intensity. BUT I do understand that love is love. And I do understand when the writing is on the wall.
Having had my heart broken by so many cute and pretty women over the years, I do now recognize what a fool I was to have wasted so much of my precious time over those who did not care for me in the past.
How I wish I could bring those wasted moments back. All those days, hours, spent on sitting around, moping, wondering and hoping for them to come back to me.
In retrospect, now that I think about it, it wasn't worth an iota.
My advise to you? Its time to move on. Plenty of fish out in the waters! Go get them!
2007-02-24 19:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's really confused. If you're the first girl she's been with then she might just need some space. Try not to pressure her too much. I'm sure she's dealing with a lot of confusion about herself. It sounds to me like she's very interested in you but scared of her own feelings. I met a girl once who I really liked and who liked me but because of being afraid to come out of the closet, I ran when she started pressuring me. A big mistake on my part.
No it doesn't have to be that hard... unless you want it to be. Just remember, some people are worth the wait. Good luck.
2007-02-25 03:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to move on - she could be feeling conflicted for many reasons, but it isn't fair to do that to you.
2007-02-25 03:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋