My parents-in-laws practice atheism,do not travel,only listen to folklore music, know very little about movies,popular / timeless music, rarely dance at special occasions, watch mostly documentary chanels and local news, have university education and they still read oldfashioned books that make them still ignorant of many things in the world and the positive sides of other countries.They can't listen to my diverse topics for too long before they cut in with their own. How many of you can enjoy the company of these people, bcoz they bore me to death as much as I bore them! At least I have a lot of popular topics to talk about, but it doesn't work.What do you think?
2007-02-24 18:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
They are not even interested in hearing about other people's travel, which must be enticing to the unknown???
2007-02-24 18:46:30 · update #1
And I like talking to the older and wiser. But it seems that my parents-inlaws are in a world of perfection where the drama of the world or other people seem gross. they never talk about bad experiences or inspirational stories where I can learn from. I would love to make converstions where they talk about their experiences. For exemple I learnt that my husband was a naughty little kid, but they do not want to stress too much about it. so, how can I make a conversation?
2007-02-27 12:27:05 · update #2
Here are some ideas:
1. try talking to them about the latest news and how it is amazing that that happened
2. try talking to them about that if they can listen to you for once and stop caring about themself
3. try getting them to do something fun outside like going to the mall, or going to a minor league baseball game or something, anything that you think is really fun
last but not least:
4. try telling them jokes and tell them about the outside world
2007-02-24 18:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to make conversation with a boring person, unfortunately you have to find a boring subject. If they watch the news at least, pick something no matter how boring and take it from there.
Some people are just boring, Im sure thought that they have friends who think they arent. I know lots of boring people but I always find something to talk about. When all else fails however, grin bear it till they leave. You cant make yourself enjoy something with them, but at least you try.
2007-02-25 03:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by nikogal2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I do...is just focus the topic on them. I ask them questions about them, their life, loves etc. I mean, why fight it? They will not change....and neither will you....so, you can make it less boring for them to allow them to talk about themselves. And, who knows; maybe you will enjoy their stories....if not; at least there is peace within the family. I mean, it's not the end of the world to focus on your in-laws is it? You're not there daily, so just listen and enjoy someone Else's idea of enjoyment....that would make you the better person, humble, and I bet they will end up LOVING you, and it's always pleasing for your spouse to see their parents loving you!
2007-02-25 03:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by nici a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure I could find something in common with them to talk about, but then again I can find something in common with just about anybody...
I dont know. They do kinda sound boring, but hell, thats life. Gotta deal with a few boring people here and there. They make you appreciate the interesting people more.
2007-02-25 02:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus W. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not of a feather, so do not flock with them, or do not take it personally.
In my culture we say: "Someone is growing a beard, should this concern me?!"
In a different word, If he is the carrier of his beard, whether it makes him ugly or not, why should I bother?!!!
2007-02-25 02:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Aadel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're selfish pigs. I'd say avoid them as much as possible. They sound like weirdos.
2007-02-25 02:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Spelling_Cop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents-in-laws sound alright to me You should read more
2007-03-04 09:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Maria puggum dog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said if you're a christian or what. Why do you feel obligated to them?
2007-02-25 02:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what they talk about. talk about similar topics. ask them about thiers beliefs...
2007-02-25 02:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋