How does a Gay Guy make a great friend off line??? If any one wants to help out some one who is trying to make a great friend let me know...
2007-02-24 18:24:23 · 6 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
However you live your life, you will find a friend. Sometimes it takes work, but they are there.
I have gay friends and those guys are the best I could ever have!
2007-02-24 18:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by cyancat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great friend is not something you can pre-arrange. Great friendships just happen. I never had a real friend until my late twenties. I never had buddies to hang out with or confide in. But one day I met a STRAIGHT guy - of all things - and there was a perfect chemestry of personalities between us, and we have become closer than brothers to the point that we would give our lives for each other in a heartbeat. And it is totally a non-sexual relationship. Yeah, he's a dreamboat and lots of times I wished he was gay, but I'm glad he is straight because the friendship we have developed is so precious that no sex in the world could replace it. And funny enough, we met at a gas station and got caught up in a discussion about the Bible.
It will happen on it's own and naturally. Extend yourself a little, don't be afraid to start conversations with strangers, and listen carefully to what people say to you. A best frienbdship will blossom for you. Good luck to you.
2007-02-25 12:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by kjv_gods_word 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would be the same as trying to meet someone str8 just a little harder because first you gotta get to know them and then do the dreadful are you gay thing. So i understand why its so hard. But a great idea is to go to a gay bar or club. some towns have gay activity places, so if you dont want to look for people online, atleast look online for local or near places where all the action is at~
2007-02-24 18:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find open minded people and be honest. If your looking for friendship, it makes no difference if you are gay. I have no experience being gay and looking for a relationship. But I've had lots of gay friends. Just be honest and be care full make sure the people really are open minded. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-24 18:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bains Gram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe I can help you with the answer, as far as the friends part though and me actually being one to anybody isn't feasible but for the most part if you are looking for a friend of any kind, but, just a friend? take the sexual orientation listing and labeling off of it, if you are looking for a true real friend then then either yours or the person whom you have a relationship with sexual orientation shouldn't matter
2007-02-24 18:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about networking. put yourself in places where you are likely to encounter social settings.. join a club, a gym, get into a hobby with others such as music, ask co-workers out for lunch or drinks.. ask friends to introduce you to other friends.. or start with online sites and lead into a meeting after you chat a while..
2007-02-24 19:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋