Well...i am 19 years old...my life seems to be in the dumps all i do is go to work and go to a community college. all i do really is hang out with my boyfriend which he is my best friend..but since high school my friends have changed and someone ditched me it feels. Its hard to make good good friends at community college..i met people yes..but not anything comsistent you know what i am saying? Is anyone going through this or has? help i feel like hell
2007-02-24 18:06:13 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
people are always gunna eventually end up changing and thats normal so youll have to adjust. and dont worry plenty of people have and are going through your same problem. somtimes life seems like its at its worst but its gunna happen and go away and then come back again because its life. and the way you make it out of the situations you go through makes you a step closer to being who you really are. just make sure you know that its not just you that has these feelings and situations wether it seems like it or not. youll make it out dont worry. youll meet new friends and so on. good luck with it all!
2007-02-24 18:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you have a job, a boyfriend, and go to college. Cheer up, from the outside that doesn't sound that bad. I went to comm. college and then a university and I know, it was much harder to make friends there than in high school or especially grade school for me. But I had no girlfriends during most of all that school. Like I say, things could be worse. And don't worry, things will change. They always do. I now have a great girlfriend, plenty of friends and I worked at the same company for over 10 years and built a very large savings. I am now jobless after voluntarily quitting but will be re-embarking on a career soon.
2007-02-25 02:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Fireant3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need a hug huh?
Yes,. life is tough sometimes,.. but the only one who both knows what you want to get out of it, and can make that happen is you...
A good place to find a few additional pals is on yahoo. YOu can look for people here,.. or find people in yahoo games
but in real life or in cyber space,... you can't always become great friends with everyone you see, its just not the way it works
things will get better,... just remember they can always get worse too
2007-02-25 02:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. I just remind myself I'll get to where I want. That my work will be worth it. Im happy as long as i get the career i want. I cant stand my current college job, yet there are people out there who are doing it primarily for a living. They don't get paid enough to put up with the responsibilities there.
2007-02-25 02:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll make new friends. People move on and sometimes it's a shame and sometimes it's a blessing. How about focusing on what's right in your life rather than what's wrong? Everyone has been where you are; consider it a part of learning. You'll be fine.
2007-02-25 02:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sven B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yer i am. i have just moved high school and it was really rough. the girls were pretty bitchy and they never included me in anything. when we had to make partners they all had them and i was left with the snotty guys. my advice is to talk to the people who are like you and im sure there is one at your college. then build your way up to becoming better friends with them and as you do that you will be introduced to more and more people. i hope i have helped and keep on trying!!!
2007-02-25 02:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get use to it. It is the way of the world. As adults friendships
dont come quite as easy, but when you do find friends they will be the kind that stick around for life.
2007-02-25 02:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
everyone has the same problem , u dont have to have friendsa from cllege try to see others in work , in club , u knw , one day u will find good friends b sure of it gurl , and anyway u got ur boyfriend whp is ur best friend
i wish u a good luck
2007-02-25 02:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by who k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your making plans for your life and you have a very special friend focus on your priorities thay pay off in the future sounds like your depressed a friend isnt what you need you need to love yourself first the rest will follow
2007-02-25 02:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by harleyhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. It can only get worse. You are in that point in your life when you come to learn that you really need to work on your relationships to avoid lifes demands from overtaking them.
Enjoy your boyfriend and acknowledge those who are going on to pursue thier own dreams in life.
2007-02-25 02:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋