I have a pattern of dating guy for about zix months and then forno apparent reason I hate them. Everything they do makes me annoyed. Everything is fine and then BAM! I'm done with them. What is wrong with me?
2007-02-24 17:48:01 · 16 answers · asked by BillyJeansmomma 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Nothing's wrong with you, that's why folks should date a while b4 getting too serious.....you will find the right guy sooner or later.
2007-02-24 17:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by raggnaar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably being attracted initially to the same kind of guy, but THAT kind of guy is not the kind of man you want to be with around the 6-month point, for some reason.
Maybe you want the relationship to be further along or more serious by that point, OR it's getting TOO serious for you at that point. Which do you think it could be?
Think about which scenario it might be, and that might shed some light on it for you. Either you are wanting a more serious relationship with commitment, or a LESS serious relationship with less commitment.
In any case, I think it's important to stop looking a the calendar when you are thinking about your relationships. It could just be a fluke that the relationships are ending at around 6 months...but once you start noticing it and considering it a 'trend,' it could become a subconscious habit.
2007-02-24 18:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by darligraphy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 10:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being rude, but you're probably just not a very good person. Don't worry, it's a common complaint. Lots of people are mean and horrible and yet manage to lead long, fulfilling lives.
One day you'll meet a nasty, mean-spirited man and things will just click.
Good luck!
2007-02-24 21:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph Well mabye they just arent for you or you just like arent into them like as much. For example like once you start to eat the same food for a while you get tired of it well that might be your problem. I hope you find someone good for you that lasts you longer than 6 months.
2007-02-24 17:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youre just smart and realize that they arent the ones you really want. So instead of wasting time with them you realistically break it off. If a guy was really appealing to you I doubt you would sabatoge yourself so easily.
2007-02-24 17:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling although i wish i had your courage to break it off. Maybe you haven't met the right person yet. or maybe you have a fear of commitment.
2007-02-24 17:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's why it's called dating, if you were ready to settle down something would probably trigger & you would stay interested longer but what do I know I haven't been single since I was a teen
2007-02-24 17:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by nativegrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg science whiz thats rude! anyway i think that nothings wrong with you its just bad luck...i wouldnt start counting the months. youre waiting for that special guy that will last long enough for you.
2007-02-24 18:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by ASht0N kiM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there's something wrong with the guys. they're just not the right persons for you to wish to spend more time with them.
2007-02-24 20:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Analyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋