M ating
A djustment
R eproducing
R earing
I ntolerance
A rgueing
G rumbling
E go clashes
2007-02-24 17:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by Rahul 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
intolerance? arguing? grumbling? ego clashes? i think not.
rather; intimacy, affection, graciousness and everlasting.
look, as time goes by--love changes, it becomes more comfortable, you love because the person needs your love, you chose to be commited, its choice, it becomes less of you and more of the relationship.
2007-02-24 17:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashlene is right. You gotta be compatible in all three aspects - Mental, Emotional and Physical. But nobody's perfect.
Secondly, how the hell did you decide that you were in love. What made you feel that you love him before you met him. I don't think that was love. Else you wouldn't have cared for his looks. Probably it was a wrong conclusion from your side.
If you don't think you can get along with him, just let him know. And tell him that you are sorry. You mistook that fair personality impression for love. That would hurt him. But it's better than to carry on and enburden both of your lives.
End next time, before ending up with any guy, think twice. Be sure that you are completely compatible with him.
All da best...
:-)
2007-02-25 15:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about marriage.com
they polled marriages that lasted and asked the partners wht they did to make it long lasting:
Continue to build intimacy -- both sexually and emotionally -- throughout your marriage.
Create passion for life and for one another.
Continue to be committed to each other and celebrate your sense of commitment.
Like one another and be friends with each other.
Have fun together, laugh together, and use humor in healthy ways.
Comfort, encourage, and affirm one another.
Be able to stand on your own feet as a couple and not be dependent either financially or emotionally on either of your parents.
Respect one another's need for privacy and space.
Parent together.
Deal with a crisis and adversity together.
Fight fair.
Accept your differences and don't try to change your spouse.
Keep romance alive in your marriage
2007-02-25 01:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
not true for everyone, went through some of that, but after 45 years of marriage we are still happy to be together, and work in the same studio together all day.
2007-02-26 15:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this from experience? Marriage to the right person can be wonderful.
2007-02-25 01:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you explain old people that have been married for 50 years or more then??
2007-02-25 01:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hrmmm yeah that souds about right lol
2007-02-25 01:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by wigglefart06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did you find it ?
Or is this your own experience?
2007-02-25 01:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by ken88dorset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where did you find that lol
2007-02-25 01:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always a fun if you want......
2007-02-25 01:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by timetotime24hr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋