That may seem harsh, but there are some people that I can't stand that I put on a fake smile for because it is to my benefit. I really do not care how they see me, but I would like to get them out of my life and just move on as if they didn't exist. Any advice?
2007-02-24 17:19:46 · 3 answers · asked by 1982 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look around at everyone you meet. Be nice to everyone you meet. They are fighting a battle which you know nothing about. You want more of an example? Okay, I was an A-B student, managed the school track team, kept down an afterschool job as a secretary with a building company, worked out at the gym 4 days a week, tutored history, geography and certain p.e. classes and I graduated in good standing in my class. Sound like the perfect little nerd? You never would have known that my dad had been abusing me for 11 years. I grew up hearing things like, "Your fat, your stupid, your dumb, you'll never make anything of yourself" and yet I accomplished all that in highschool and now I'm shipping out for Navy boot camp in three weeks.
I want you to find the most perfect person you can and I want you to sit down and study them. How do you think they got that way? Did they come from a good family, or did they have one like mine? You dont know, so you dont have any right to judge anyone. If you keep on caring about nobody but yourself, one day your going to end up alone and your going to wonder why. I've got four of the closest friends to support me. Who do you have? Think about that, and good luck.
2007-02-24 17:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosen up, lighten up, quit being so serious, and drink more alcohol.
2007-02-25 01:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by MetroDetroitGuy25 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to do it by heart, try to get involved
2007-02-25 01:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋