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2007-02-24 17:10:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

19 answers

staying married for the wrong reasons. and wanting someone who is married also. my solution is to get a divorce. but taking my time.

2007-02-24 17:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by missa 1 · 1 0

In my opinion and through experience. The most difficult is having any kind of insecurities that tend to spill over into the other persons well-being. It can literally drive them into another direction . Also don't be so eager to learn a secret. Because that secret could change your life forever. Just be very attentive and open minded and let your mate know how you feel. Don't make the foolish mistake of believing he or she should know what you are thinking. Because of course that is impossible. It's entirely up to you to let the other know how you feel about things. Communication break down can be fatal to a relationship, despite how strong you thought you had it with them. And continue to show caring concern and be genuine about what you say and do.
Hope I helped.
Marseille

2007-02-25 01:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by marseillelangres 4 · 0 0

My most difficult relationship situation was dealing with the misbehaved children from previous relationships and while many people called me selfish and unwilling to try to work through the situations, I just walked away. My children didn't act like that so why would I subject them to these little snot nosed you know whats for the sake of my having a relationship, it wasn't worth it.

2007-03-03 06:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0 0

thats a good question.....im sure you will get a lot of different answers but the most difficult one i had was when i was seeing this guy in the army and 2 months into the relationship i found out he was "married" and had 3 kids and another one on the way !! I happen to find out about it by accident he thought he was playing it off real good until one nite i went to the bar and saw him all drunk and talking to his friends and his wife was drunk too !! and she "just" happen to be there , my friends planned on having girls nite out you know get together shoot some pool and have a few shots n drinks....luckily, it was kinda dark in there and i walked up to the bar to get a couple drinks and he looked at me and siad "do i know you?! and i said yep you sure do, remembr you were in my bed last nite ?! and his wife looked suprised then i smiled and at her and told her she mite want to sit down before she tripped over being so drunk . my guy friends who were there to just looked at the poor loser and laughed, at first and his wife came over to the pull table we were at and asked when , where and how, i was honest with her and told her! men can be very decietful and she siad there was no telling how long he had been screwing her over, i told her to do some thinking when shes sober and find some who is a good person! i didn't have to worry about anything, i herd later they got divorced and he lost his job and rank and was discharged! so.....thats the most difficult i've delt with!

2007-02-25 01:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by southernspring2010 2 · 0 0

Knowing that the person you're with is all wrong for many, many reasons but you still keep taking them back time and time again until one day you wake up and see that 10 years has gone by!! Life is way too short!

2007-03-04 20:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by gall1959 2 · 0 0

You've hit the hardest question ,
how may I explain . . .
I was in there, extremely hard,
but I can't really elaborate. it was
for a long time till I can't take it
any longer, i am now divorced.
that had leave me so much pain
and fear. Thar's the reason why i've
never been in a relationship since.
It's been 9 yrs now.
.

2007-02-25 01:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0 0

My In-Laws hating me and the feeling is pretty mutual at this point. We all live in the same vicinity, and there's no way to totally avoid all of their hateful a**es!! Solution? Flipping them off behind their backs. Mature, I know, but I can't force them to like me.

2007-02-25 02:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by SweetGin 2 · 0 0

Abuse!! Both verbal and physical. Control. Being married to a Sociopath.

Divorce was my solution.

2007-02-25 02:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by time2smile2007 1 · 0 0

This boy I know and like that I've become kind-of attached to....is being driven away by one of my other friends. She's been giving him notes and things that really aren't my style and saying I'm desperate, even though I'm not and they're scaring him off!!!!!!! It's bugging the crap out of me!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-03 02:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by jessica 2 · 0 0

Loving him so much though i don't know if he's still have plans about the future of our relationship


"sit on the powder keg"

2007-02-25 02:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0 0

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