Every time my fiance and I have sex, the only position I can actually orgasm in is when I'm laying on my back. My fiance finds this position somewhat boring and we have a very experimental sex life, so I often times don't orgam during actual intercourse. Is this just a matter of certian stimulation, and are there other positions that are cause similar stimulation that we can try?
2007-02-24 16:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Not very many women have orgams just from vaginal sex. Most women need clitoral stimulation. Either you or your fiance should stimulate your love button while trying different positions. Good luck and happy humping!
2007-02-24 17:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orgasms are usually the result of clitoral stimulation, so when you are laying on your back, most likely you are getting a lot of clitoral stimulation, another position which could be beneficial is for you to be on top and make sure your clitoral area receives stimulation as well as you move. Do not focus too much on it, you can always stimulate yourself with your fingers, the sentation of an orgasm goes beyond the clitoris once it has been reached, so however you reach it, it should not matter, just reach it! Have fun and be safe.
2007-02-27 12:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like when you are laying on your back the G-Spot is being stimulated. That is why you are having your great orgasms while laying on your back. The product called (The Liberator) is said to be great for better love making. These are like cushions certain angles etc. You may want to check out the website. Liberator.com They did have a short clip to watch,and tell you how to use these angles .I think this would help you. I myself find this a great buy but a little expensive. You may want to get a self taught dvd or something at your local adult shop to help you find different angles ETC. We use are own bean bags to lay on for intercourse this works great because you can move them in different angles.
2007-02-24 18:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be because while you're on your back, all your muscles are relaxed. Try and find positions where you can let your body reach maxium relaxation, don't seize up, try and let all of your muscles relax, and you'll just sit back and enjoy the ride (no pun intended)
2007-02-24 17:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain women come to certain position, but try to relax when you have sex. do not focus on coming, enjoy the experience...
2007-02-24 16:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by et417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Girls do't need to orgasm. Men DO need to, so stop being selfish. Focus on how fortunate you are to have a man that will copulate with you & how you can keep him happy sexually.
2007-02-24 22:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by The kissman 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋