Please, someone help me...I've been dating for a month a guy who is tottaly in love for me . A month ago me and my boyfriend, the great love of my life broke up because I cheated on him... =/ (stupid, I know). But I LOVE HIM SO MUCH!!
Now I dunno what to do... Should I try to get the love of my life back or try to be happy with this new one??
Please guys, help me!!
Thank you!
2007-02-24 16:36:07 · 13 answers · asked by Tamires L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you cheated on yr bf he prolly doesnt want you back anyhoo..try not to cheat on this new one!
2007-03-04 12:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Lily ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cheated on him so u must not have been committed. There is not much that u can do to prove anything otherwise. Love doesn't mean anything. It's a feeling that comes and goes and comes and goes as the relationship continues. Alot of people break up because the feeling is gone but it comes back eventually. The thing is whether u have the committment and dedication to the relationship that keeps u with your partner and maintains the respect when things r tough. Obviously u didn't and regardless of what u do or say that will always be held over your head (whether he takes u back or not). If u aren't satisfied with the relationship that u r in then u should end it for someone else but forget the other guy. U probably only want him because u lost him. If u were still with him I'm sure that u wouldn't feel this way...instead u would be off cheating with some other guy.
Just enjoy your life and do what u think is best.
2007-02-24 16:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say try to work it out with The Love Of Your Life. But only if he can truly forgive you. Let him know that it was a mistake and if you could turn back the hands of time you would. Cheating is never a cool thing sweet heart. 1st, whats in the dark always come to light. 2nd, condoms don't protect you from CRABS. remember that. There are way to many STD's out here for people to be having unprotected sex (not saying that you did) or having more that one sex partner. If you two get back together, (whatever it was that he did that made you stray) talk your problems out. let him know what you need less or more of. Let him know what you like and dislike. COMMUNICATION does work. If you love him that much then I pray that everything works out for you.
2007-02-24 16:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should go with love. Don't lead this other guy on...face it you messed up with the love of your life but you can try again..remember he may reject you and I can stand to say that it is 'hard to trust after someone cheats'- but at least you would have tried. One more thing before you get into a relationship always try to heal from another it makes us women (anyone) an emotionally bliss! Good Luck.
Dr. Gates
2007-02-24 16:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by cgates20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well first off DO NOT PLAY WITH THAT BOYS HEART!!! if u do not love ur current boyfriend, END IT! do not settle for something that will not make u happy. u will hurt him terribly and u will hurt urself in the process. cheating is so stupid but i am guilty so i know where u are comin from but unlike u i didn't cheat on the love of my life...i have yet to find mine. but if u honestly believe that he is the love of ur life then go get er done girl! don't let him get away, u will live the rest of ur life wondering what could have been instead of what is.
2007-03-04 15:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should take a break and not date anyone for a while. Reflect on what you did and why you did it. If he was the great love of your life, then why would you hurt him knowing that you could lose him as a result? Sometimes we really don't know what we want until it is gone. I would just spend sometime alone for a while until I figure out what it is in life I really want.
2007-02-24 16:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by CelticPixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him so much you would not be dating the new guy. If you really wanted to be with the new guy, you wouldn't be thinking about the previous guy. Take a break and start over.
2007-03-02 16:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by debk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confusion...
I think you should sit down with your ex and try to talk.
(more time you spend with him more he can fall in love again.)
be seductif...be sorry... proof him that you really really regret to
cheat on him.
About they other guy forget him... if you are not in love with the second guy why you should be his girlfriend?
Why always be someone?
is it very that important for you to be with someone absolutly...?
Hope it help
Good Luck!
2007-02-24 16:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by lollol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely truely love the other person try and get back with him, but he might not be too forgiving because cheating sucks. I personally would just stay with person I have so you don't end up alone.
2007-02-24 16:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by lexismariex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with the new one, if he really wanted to resolve it he wouldnt have broken up in the first place. You learned a valuble lesson move on.
2007-02-24 16:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him that much then why did you cheat on him?
It's very wrong that you did that, & i wouldn't be suprised if he's mad at you.
You have to see.
Ask yourself. Who do you want to spend your life with?
Choose from there.
Good luck.
2007-02-24 16:42:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋