I am expecting in 1 month. My mom said not to get an obortion, But i am wondering will i be ok during the labor process. I am only 15 and i want this baby, my boyfriend to have it cause he loves me. I love him to. I relllly need advice.
2007-02-24 15:36:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You'll be fine...just listen to your mom and your doctor. Have you considered adoption? It might not be the happiest option for you, but it might be the best option for the baby. You're going to be a mom and you have to think beyond yourself now.
2007-02-24 15:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already at 8 months, you couldn't have an abortion now anyway. Just make sure that you are surrounded with lots of support & love, family, church, counseling, whatever you prefer. It sounds like you have a good start with your mother & boyfriend. It's going to be really hard work raising a child just being a child yourself, but others have done it and persavered. Good luck!
2007-02-24 15:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Al 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, labor is hard on your body thats why its called labor.
It hurts like h*ll, but the end result is well worth it.
I have to say you are really young, I hope you have been getting good prenatal care. Your doc and mom should be able to answer any questions you have. Lamaze really worked for me, I would check into that if you have not already.
Good Luck and best wishes
Morgaine
2007-02-24 15:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get the abortion for several reasons
1. more often than not, the abortion is more risky (for your health) than having the baby
2. you will always regret giving up your baby, especially since you have been carrying it for so long
3. you will always wonder what would have happened if you had at least given birth to the baby.
if you are concerned with your health (which would be smart because you are so young) talk to your doctor about possible complications and what you can expect to happen
just remember, your not the first girl to have a baby so young, back in Jesus times it was the normal thing!
good luck, i wish you and your future family well!
^,^
2007-02-24 15:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cory S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey.. i was 15 when i got pregnant with my son!! i was so scared but i would never change it i love him to death and so happy that i kept him.. There are so many poeple that will give you **** to be honest like the doctors will talk to your parents like youare not there due to the fact they think you are to young but stand up for your self dont be shy it is a wonderfull expiernce... their are things called MID wives look into it they are great it is just a person there for you while you are pregnant and giving birth.. not a doctor but just someone who knows everythin as the doctor does but will give youadvice and help you through this... sometimes is easier to talk to soemone not in the family! good luck baby girl... dont regret it and they growup fast my son is now 3 and growing like a weed.....
2007-02-24 18:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by hot_juicy513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all hun, lemme tell u to "stay in school"
and as far as labor goes of course it hurts like a bia_ch at first but when ur holding ur baby, its all worth it.
i was 16 when i had my first baby, she's 9 now and i wouldent change my life in no way shape or form ... all things happen for a reason and if ur mom and bf support u than u should be ok
good luck hun
2007-02-24 15:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had my son when I was eighteen, I know that isn't as young as you,but I survived. Just don't let the nurses get you down. You are the one having the baby and are in pain and you are the boss in the delivery room. Yell if u have to! Take care and GOOD LUCK!! ;)
2007-02-24 15:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by CheleS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an epidural and that will work. It won't completely dull the pain so it'll hurt like Hell but you'll survive. Don't push until you 10 centimeters dilated and don't push until the doctor tells you too. Just follow the doctor's instructions and you'll be fine.
2007-02-25 03:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are due in one month then it is too late to have an abortion.
You can only have abortions up to 24 weeks and they banned partial birth abortions so you will be giving birth whether whoever don't like it.
2007-02-24 18:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt be able to get an abortion if you tried anyways......they're only performed within the first 3 months of pregnancy. Good luck with your baby. I think you'll be fine.
2007-02-24 16:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋