I am bi, who should I flirt more with?

Question

The guy is handsome and funny. The gal is serious and sensitive.

debbie if you didn't like my question you didn't have to answer. You were not born like me so don't act like you know how to walk in my shoes.

Answer 1

First are you a bisexual or a bicurious person? Bicurious folks want to date a member of the same sex as an experiment (or vice-versa, could be a gay person who messes around with a straight person for the same reason).

If you are a "true" bisexual, gender is irrelevant when it comes to attraction. You can choose to date both to see who you "click" with more (similar to how a straight or gay person would date two+ people) and then pursue a relationship with that person. Ignore people who assume you are confused or think that you just want to carry on a relationship with two people at the same time, or are just looking for a threesome. Sexuality is on a continuum. Some people are strictly straight, others strictly gay.; Most people fall somewhere in the middle.

Kudos to you for choosing to embrace your sexuality despite being discriminated against or judged by those on the extreme ends of the spectrum.

Answer 2

I TRULY believe from seeing it happen too many times - you should make it known to your partners that you will be poygamous or monogamous. The ONLY chance bisexuals have at forming relationships is to be clear about that from the beginning. If you intend to be with both, then go flirt and be clear about your intentions. Most bisexuals don't like both sexes equally, so just focus more on whomever you are more interested in. You can't really have both if you want to be in a serious relationship, but you might be able to date both as long as you don't lie to anyone about seeing other people on a less serious level.

Answer 3

Pick which ever one makes you the most comfortable..as well as who excites you the most!

I've always felt more attracted to females, but I've had the occassionally fofilling relationship with the right guys too....just more often women. My partner of the past ten plus years has been the most wonderful woman I could ever ask for!

Answer 4

Who do u like the most is the question? Which one do u feel that connection with? If u like them both why not go for both of them?

Answer 5

Well, whomever you are attracted to the most. Meaning that it may be one gender one week and the other gender the next or for only two days. You would flirt with whomever you are attracted to.

Answer 6

Flirt with whoever you like more! Honestly, if it's really an equal toss-up, I say go with funny. But then again, that's just me- I really value humor.

Answer 7

alrighty im a "true" bi. i love both lol. im a girl and im goin out with a girl right now. i like both guys and girls the same tho, its just who i happen to like at the time. but girls are better to go out with and make out and stuff, cause with guys they just wanna see how far they can get there tounge down your throat. girls are sensitve and BETTER KISSERS ! =] and the good thing about guys is they can beat someones *** if they talk sh*t about you lol.
its your choice, its just who you happen to like at the time.
i wish you luck in all you do =]
hope i helped.

Answer 8

Are you Bi?Or..........are you lonely,have low self asteem,have fears of,...rejection,looking stupid,failure,sucsess,are you in your early teens thru twenties?Everyone goes thru triles and tribulations!!Find out who you are ,and THEN taste them!If nothing else,do a threesome!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Your choice, you have the best of both worlds, some would say.

Answer 10

Whoever turns you on more and has the same sexual persuasion as you.