Defining adultery if wife tour with her Ex-boyfriend?

Question

Hi,
My wife has planned a tour with her Ex-boyfriend, without my knowing. She has booked a double-bed room in the hotel. No doubt, both will spend few nights together.
I dont hire a Private Investigator to tackle this situation, but i have findings to show that both names in the flight itinerary and 2pax/rm were mentioned in her hotel's voucher.
Does the above able to define as adultery? Else to what extend is considerable? Moreover, my wife has been asking many times for a divorce recently.

Answer 1

Yep, she should be getting her own room. It's adultery, yes. I'd hire the PI to make sure though. She's cheating on you. Divorce the filthy *****.

Answer 2

I can't say if its adultery as that would be the Unauthorized Practice of Law, however if you dont trust her divorce her but if you use that as the reason be prepared to back it up. As far as the hotel goes, surely you can put 2 and 2 together and get that answer. Check a site call findlaw.com and it should help in the defining area for ya. Good Luck

Answer 3

She has asked you for a divorce many times recently and you are wondering if her vacation with a guy is adultry? Most states have "no fault" divorces, so it wouldn't matter if she committed adultry or not, I find it interesting that you just now are questioning her motives and not taking her communications of wanting a divorce seriously. Let her file for divorce and move on, what is there to gain by wondering what she is doing on her tour. She is being point blank that it is over, believe her and move out.

Answer 4

No it is not adultery, but you should definitely be considering that divorce. I personally would get my financial situation immediately and hire a lawyer. You need to protect your assets. As far as issues of the heart, I feel bad for you, but it seems like there is communication lacking in your marriage. That is usually a two-sided problem (but not always). Good luck. If you want to give it a chance, you might try counseling - but both people have to want it for it to work.

Answer 5

Sorry dude to hijack your thread. I have these simulated scenrio.

If my wife did the same thing like this mister's.

Booked ticket share the same room with her EX colleague who was her courter. Though she says nothing happened n rest me assured, i m worry.... we quarrelled over it and she left for Europe for about 1 week.

I got no money to hire PI. How can i penalise her on this act? Can i hold her and nail her for this act? Though if no sexual act was caught red handed. Can i check the hotel for these room sharing information? Custom and airline for verifications that these couple went on the same flight, same seating row and same room?

My main concern is my child's custody. Wife is a foreigner, my child born here and have PR or mother's country. What should i do to fight the case to get my son back?

Thanks in advance.

Answer 6

I would trhink that you should hire a private investagator that way if something goes wrong then you will have the proper back that you will need in court.... This can get very mnessy though, i must admit she must be brave to do something like this i wouldnt do that to my man thats for sure she is soso wrong good luck with this

Answer 7

she is gonna get some that isn't just touring .
she is cheating on you don't take this go file for a divorce and keep the house
If you ever move out you give up your rights to the house
while she is out of town f-ing him go to the court house and file for the divorce

Answer 8

Yes, this is adultery and she is cheating on you. You and your wife need to talk about this issue of divorce and if you both want to salvage your marriage. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Dear Sir,
It cannot be technically called as adultery yet, but after the tour it certainly will be.

I suggest you to please assess the situation about your conjugal life. Divorce is not at all a bad option.

Answer 10

Sounds like she is ready to get out of the marriage. If she asking for a divorce then why is any of this news to you.