My man whose my best friend and we are in love.We are long distance.He asked me to find his best friend a gf among my friends.So i matchmaked his friend with my friend.Problem is hes very close to his friend if his friends happy hes happy if hes sad hes sad.I understand being away from home having his best friend as room mate theres a bond.But its effecting our relationship.Even his friends gf my friend was saying my man asks her to answer about her relationship with his friend even my friend finds it odd they are so close.He doesnt call/email/chat/talk to me but does with my friend asking her about her relationship with his friend.His friend calls me to ask me about my relationship with my man.Either 3 things are happening here which is it?my man loves me,is looking out for his best friend so asking my friend questions about their relationship and his friend vice versa with me.my man and his friend are gay.my man is trying to get other girls through me saying its for his friend(i asked my friend she said she never spoke or met my man it was his friend who was speaking meeting her always so thats not true)please tell me what do u think?
2007-02-24 15:22:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
NO OFFENCE TO ANYONE
2007-02-24 15:23:35 · update #1
Im neither lesbian,gay,homosexual no offence here too from a point of view of a counsellor having a doctrate phd in this subject let me just say this seems like u need to let this man know ur not going to put up with crap and if he gets his act together thats good if not please move on.once u show him that ur not going to put up with it hes going to wake up and smell the coffee(u)
2007-02-25 04:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a new man and a new best friend.
2007-02-24 15:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋