I just recently had a conversation with a girl that used the phrase "respect is earned" to justify her own disrespect towards me. As I understand it, respect is a two way street, and I did nothing that merited being disrespected, nor did I disrespect her. Yet, I was constantly berated for asking questions that she considered too "technical" that she simply didn't want to answer. If anyone's read my answers regarding adult spanking, it isn't simply a passing interest, and I take it and my knowledge of it quite seriously. This is a girl that claims to be a spankophile, yet didn't want to answer questions that I felt would help me to understand what kind of spankings she enjoyed and/or needed. To top it off, her own spanker basically condoned her behavior by saying that he didn't care if she disrespected anyone besides him. I have put this person on ignore, as I feel no further need to put up with it. Was I wrong to toss her aside, and what is your thoughts on respect in this age?
2007-02-24 15:08:55 · 3 answers · asked by baka_otaku30 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think that respect is earned by a person's actions, but there's still no reason to be disrespectful until someone gives you one. I gave her another chance, though she told me that her definition of respect was different than mine. I wonder if she'd still feel that way if someone treated her how she treated me. Still, the question of what entails "respect" is still up in the air.
@Philip K: While she is the bratty type, this wasn't bratting. She was basically talking down to me when I tried to explain what information I was looking for, as if they were all "common sense" that everyone would know, despite later admitting that she didn't. She claims that my "technical" outlook on spanking intimidated her, yet it's what has most girls coming back for seconds. I learn everything I can about a bottom so that I can give them the best experience possible for them. I don't see how that is "intimidating."
2007-02-25 05:31:39 · update #1
I don't know if you we were wrong at tossing her aside but I believe everyone needs to be given a chance.. To be heard and understood but other than that I don't beleieve respect should be earned repsect should be given effortlessly.. Easy come and easy go..
2007-02-24 15:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by honey cheeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect is a two way street. u need to ask her, how does one go about "earning respect"? u did nothing wrong by tossing her to the side.
2007-02-24 23:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she was trying to brat you, but that she's not yet learnt how to do it properly. Since life's short, and there are plenty of charmingly bratty girls out there to chat to (and with any luck spank), I don't blame you for dropping her.
2007-02-25 04:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋