My girlfriend parent strongly object our relationship, even without meeting me before!?

Question

my gf is 22, and we have been going out for nearly 2 mths. However, these 2 mths have been hell for me and her as her mum is strongly disagree in our relationship in a dramatic fashion. The reason her mum doesn't like me was in the past when we were still friends, she used to bad-mouth me infront of her mother, as she is a really decent girl, things like drinking, clubbing and smoking is consider as really bad behaviour. However, as she get to know me more, she realised i am not as bad as she think and I have quit those bad habbit, but her mum already have the impression imprint in her mind even without meeting me. She has try to break off with me but unsuccessfully, and we always go back together after. We try to keep our relationship discretely but we know is hurting her and her parent. So we decided to call it off once again, but to please he mum is hurting me & her. I know not much I can do beside leaving her, but would like to hear anyone w/wo similar experience to advice! Thanks!

Answer 1

You could always talk with the mom, in casual type conversation, and let her know that you have stopped your bad habits. Let her know you understand it'll take her awhile to trust you but that you do care for her daughter and she will see that is true. You could even write this in a card with a gift.

Also you are going to have to do two things:
1. Romance your girlfriend. Do so many nice things for her. She'll talk with her mom about them. And do things that are traditionallly nice but also things that are new and shows you are unique. You have to make an effor to be extra sweet with your gf and treat her great.
2. Suck up to mom. Give her gifts, say beautiful things to her,and be all in all corney. Be unique. Give her a reason to like you.

Answer 2

How about kissing your gf's mother's as$?? Invite them to dinner, show them you're a really nice, trustworthy boy...