(long and a lil confusing, sry)
i've had the same best friend since about 7th grade- anna. i'm in 12th grade now. anna's other close friend sara moved in with her in 11th grade. anna tends to hang out with sara and sara's old best friend more than me, usually with a group of people that i hang out with at school but don't know that well. i feel like she doesn't invite me to hang out with them because i'm shy. however, someone else in the group invites me to hang out with the group more than anna does! should i talk to anna about inviting me, or should i move on and try to make other good friendships? advice would be much appreciated.
2007-02-24 15:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by regina 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel. That it hurts that she doesn't invite you. And remember people often grow apart. It is not very often that someone keeps the same friends for life, but when it does happen it is very special. If she is a good friend she will understand your feelings. But sometimes, especially at your age people tend to start going their own way and finding their own thing. You will make lots of new friends through the years, and it's like I tell my kids, the more friends the better, you don't have to stick with just one.
2007-02-24 15:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you do both. Confront her about this and it's only natural that friendships fade after some time no matter how hard you try to keep them up and it sounds like unless you ask her about it soon syou might lose this friendship and you need to decide if this friendship is worth keeping. if it is then confron her and tell her how you feel or better yet you invite her to do things with you. I suggest if you hang out with a group of people you don't know very well then get to know them by talking more and if that doesn't work then just find other friends they're always out there. Sorry i hope this helps
2007-02-24 15:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i feel the same way... try really hard to keep your friendship yight if you really care for your friend but other than that tell her how you feel. What i did was just go on i still hang out with the same group but with different people. i guess al you can really do id move on
2007-02-24 15:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by .:Zany:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know is that I used to hang out with some friends and was close with one of them but when she was with them I got ignored, it was all about her. She & another girl weren't nice to me a couple of times and I always felt like I was just walking behind them, literally. I was kind of a quiet person, was never a rowdy party person and couldn't think of alot to say at times when we were like in a big group, I felt like I was just listening to their conversation. I never stood up to them and accepted a mediocre friendship, I regret it to this day, I should've never put up with it. I should've been with people who were nice to me. I had a best friend for 5 years and she moved to another school but we would still see ea. other as well as with other of our friends. As we got older her peppy personality and my quiet one led us in different directions. Our friendship ended. I would suggest you talk to her and tell her how you feel, you'll be able to tell if she cares and if things don't change or you are unhappy, move on.
2007-02-24 15:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at a period in your lives where freindships either dissolve or cement into lifetime relationships. Friends grow apart, for whatever reasons. You could try to talk to her, tell her how much you value her friendship, and if there is anything you have done to hurt her. The ball would be in her court after that.
2007-02-24 15:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident! God can do something, yet fail. yet does the dating could be restored. friends come into your existence for a SEASON, a reason, or an entire life. it rather is as much as us to make the alternative whether or no longer they extra healthful into one among those categories. each so often what we predict of is superb for us isn't the case. Jeremiah 29:11 states "For i understand the plans I definitely have for you, plans of solid and not of evil, to furnish you a desire and a destiny." each so often God is attempting to furnish us some thing extra advantageous (extra), yet we are clinging so tightly to those issues till we cant hold close the novelty that he's attempting to giver us.
2016-11-25 21:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by deardorff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can remain friends with her but get out and make other good friends. dont depend on one person to hang out with on the weekends that would be a big mistake. when she sees you doing this she will more than likely start hanging out with you again...but dont dump your new friends you can hang with all of your friends including her.
2007-02-24 15:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by nataliesmamaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, she is taking another chapter in life, and you should try to become more outgoing.maybe other friends may accept you more
2007-02-24 15:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by tr4nzxd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋