how do you make a guy not look at other girls?

Question

the guy can be deepely in love with you and still do it :( why???!!! and how do you teach them not to?

and not make him think im controling

Answer 1

Don't believe what everyone else says ok. When me and my partner got together he wasn't the best of boyfriends, meaning he had some of these bad behaviors. He Does Not do anything like that anymore. So it is possible and he doesn't resent me either, in fact he now says he is glad he doesn't do that and looking at others who do he thinks its sick/disrespectful. But as how to do it, just depends on your man. You have to let him know you are serious about it, you have to catch him and get upset when he does. And if he isn't willing to respect your wishes then hes not good enough for you.

Oh and a shallow tip: looking hot yourself helps (but won't end the problem)

Answer 2

All guys are human and they are going to look no matter what. I have been with my hubby 17 yrs and we have only been married for 10 of those years and he still looks at other girls and it does not bother me, because I know he loves me with his hole heart. And he tells me hey I can look as long as I don't touch there is nothing wrong with it and he is right. So I would not let that get to you because as long as he comes home to you every night you have nothing to worry about. Unless he has cheated on you in the passed. Everyone is going to look at the other sex or for that matter they might even look at the same sex and wonder things about them. And I think that that is what keeps people together longer.

Answer 3

I know what ya mean, me and my boyfriend don't do that cause our eyes are made for each other and are madly in love and i dont think theres a guy better looking then my bf and my bf thinks im the most gorgeous girl in the world

Answer 4

Guys are guys, and they will look at attractive females. you should either a) accept it and realize that he is just simply looking, and not feel so insecure about it. but i'm not saying it like it's easy. so here's your other option, b) you could tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable or (if you're brave enough to admit this,) insecure that he looks at other women. but either way, i think he won't stop because men can't help but to look at other women, especially when they're attractive. it's just instinct to them. but talk to him, and tell him that it makes u feel uncomfortable when he does it and ask him how would he feel if a hot guy walked by, and YOU checked him out. then he'll realize that hes wrong by making you feel insecure. but remember that there's a difference between glancing at a woman and checking her out. if he's just glancing, then its not so bad. =/ good luck!

Answer 5

Looking at females is just the male nature, when they start staring and fantasizing is when you should worry. You cant make him stop, and if you try it might make him think you are trying to control him.

Answer 6

I just tell mine "look but don't touch". He's stayed with me 12 years now, and we still hold hands when we're walking, and he still opens car doors for me. Why 'make' him do something he'll only resent?

Answer 7

LOL - unless you are going to rip his eyes out of his head he will looks sometimes and so will you.