friends - always with me before, makes me laugh before. respect me before. but now, doesn't seem to care anymore, don't listen to what im trying to say eventhough its important, makes me feel rejected by them. makes me feel that they're laughing at my back. and also when im around, they looked like they don't see me. and when im trying to tell something, they don't give a damn. i dont know why did they turned out that way. i've been with them over 3 years..
my boyfriend - even if im telling senseless things, he still listens, always there with me. makes me feel good. he also proved to me that he can be my friend, my brother, and my boyfriend. and even we have little fight, when day comes and i'll need him, he's always there.
that's why i choose my boyfriend over my friends. some may think im dumb sticking with my bf and leaving my friends, but to me, i decided right.
what about you guys? how can you comment on this? what do you think?
2007-02-24 14:58:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me and my boyfriend were together for 1 year.
2007-02-24 14:58:47 · update #1
he's not making me choose between them. its my own decision.
2007-02-24 15:05:05 · update #2
you have a very good relationship with your boyfriend if you have been for one year and hes treating you so well. but you need to win your friends back and talk to them about it because if god forbid something happens with your boyfriend.. (i dont want to jinx anything im wishing you luck wiht him) then your friends wont be there for you at all even if they mean it when they say it or not. if they dont want to be as good of friends with you anymore, then make new ones or somehting...but dont trust too easily and keep focus on your boyfriend too because he might start to think your spending more time being interested in your new friends and sharing things with them other than him. good luck sweetie ! =)
2007-02-24 15:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by iSAB3LLA ♥« 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should never be a case where you need to choose between them, I feel like part of the fun in dating is being able to hang out with your friends and your partner and everyone have a good time.
But boyfriends or girlfriends will come and go, but friends will always be there for you.
2007-02-24 23:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends have a problem with you they should discuss with you. I had the same problem with 2 girls that i thought were my friends a couple of years ago. My best advice to you is that you're better off letting go because friends are supposed to make you happy not sad.You are worth more than what they are giving.
2007-02-24 23:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweetarchitecture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy is makeing you choose then i dont think hes good enough for any girl c a girl NEED her friends friends last longer then guys do (well most of the time)
2007-02-24 23:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, let me see, did your friends act like that before the boyfriend came along? if they did, then i would say they arent really your friends. if not, you need to take another look at what is really happening here. maybe they see something in your boyfriend that you dont. love is blind. but not to everyone. be careful.
2007-02-24 23:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋