omg i found out im pregnant AGAIN after literally having a baby 4 months ago. Im scared to tell my family I know they will be angry but how do I break it to them?
2007-02-24 14:51:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well im 22 i was on birth control with both children .... taking it daily at 1215 plus i make good money and me and husband are happy so yea... sorry for all those who think im younger than 18...
2007-02-24 15:04:39 · update #1
As long as your and adult and are with the daddy and ya`ll support yourselves then I don`t see a problem with it...My son is 7 months old and I`m 17 weeks pregnant with our 3rd baby..(I`m also 30 and married) Unless your parents are supporting you and you baby then I don`t see then getting upset..Good luck to you and your not alone and can get through this..
Just read your added details.....Yeah the birth control didn`t work for me either..Just be up front with them and honest..Say hey we didn`t plan it so soon but...guess what!! I don`t think they`ll react they way your thinking..It sounds to me that your husband and you are doing good and are happy about it so congrats and good luck yo you!!
2007-02-24 15:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
They shouldn't be angry. They may be surprised but don't you think they will offer to help you with the babies? Most families make the best of a situation such as this. You're not the first one to have children this close together and your kids will grow up close together and have lots in common. I came from a family where my first sister was 11 months when number two came and 13 months later I came along. My mom had three children within 2 years and one week. Busy? yes. But my sisters and I grew up very close to each other and we still are. So enjoy your pregnancy the best you can and look forward to this new baby. You have a busy few years ahead of you but it will get easier as they grow.
2007-02-24 23:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by prarierosebud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW sounds exactly like me... I had my son a year ago and I am due in one month with my second! I had the same feelings too. I know that I took my family out to eat and told them in public. I thought this way they wouldnt make too much of a scene lol. Just make sure you know what you are going to say. It's hard to get out trust me. Make sure you reassure them of things like whatever your plans are with the money situations, living situation, and all that. Besides breaking the news... it aint easy towards the end. Its hard taking care of a one year old and being 35 wks pregnant, and I can only imagine how much harder it is going to get when she is born. Everything happens for a reason though, and even though it is hard at times... YOU JUST DO IT! Good luck to you and Congratuations.
2007-02-24 23:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pregggers2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're an adult, why are you scared? Are you an adult? If not, they're eventually gonna know that ur pregant because your belly is going to get bigger each day girl.
Dont u think they'll notice? Yeah, pretty much. If you an adult, its okay. Its nothing to be ashamed about. If you a young girl, then your gonna need to tell them AGAIN because they're bound to find out anyway and they'll probably be mad at u if u didnt tell them sooner than later. And why would they be angry?
2007-02-24 23:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Where's the sunset? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation as you...except my son is 1. Well with my first child I told my mom through text message. Haha. I was so scared! I don't know why I was scared... I'm married and living comfortably. Anyways, she of course was happy. Now I have to somehow tell her about number 2...eek!
2007-02-24 23:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my family don't think i should have kids in my position. When I got pregantn I was happy and I knew I had to 'deal' with my family. It is my life and it is not their business. So I emailed them all and defensivley and said "I am happy about this and dont' push me away. Dont' say anything until you have something supportive or at least nice to say'. Some of them seemed offended. But I am happy... they need to support me or butt out.
2007-02-24 23:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would they be angry? They are going to find out sooner or later so better tell them sooner so they get used to the idea if you think they are not going to be happy about it...Good Luck!
2007-02-24 22:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa ♥'s Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your parents be angry? Just remember children are a gift from God! You're very blessed.
Psalm127:3
3 Children are a gift from the LORD;
they are a reward from him.
2007-02-25 03:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming that you are an adult who knows how to take care of herself and child/children so why should your family be upset with you. Your life, live it how you want to live and not how other people tell you to.
2007-02-24 23:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by toymod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i as well got pregnent 5 month after the first and as long as you are ok with is its great for the kids my two are great friends and i love knowing they will be in school together almost thier hole time its hard but its worth good luck!!!
2007-02-24 22:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋