I looked very hard for an old friend online. When I found him he responed right away and acted very happy that I did.So I sent him a couple e-mails. When he did not respond I sent him another one saying I was sorry if me finding him was a bad idea. He wrote back and said He wanted me to write him whenever I wanted to in fact he was thinking about me a lot and tried to call my old phone no. that has been dissconnected. And when he couldn't talk to me it made him feel sad. So I wrote him again and even gave him my new no. But he never called. Never wrote back, nothing. So I wrote him again and told him this long story about what has been going on with my life since we last saw each-other and told him I could really use his friendship right now. Still nothing. I sent him an e-card and told him I'm sorry for bugging him and I'll leave him alone from now on. Still NOTHING!!! And now it's driveing me crazy! Do I drop it or tell him I want an awnser to why he has pushed me away?
2007-02-24 14:43:26 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd wait! I know you're curious, but if he really wants to stay in touch he will. If he doesn't, you don't want him to. Best of luck.
2007-02-24 14:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
,I'm 56 and I tend to behave like you in this situation and over the years I have found that I would drop it. I suppose I would say if you were to make a good connection, would you want to deal with this kind of "communication" or lack of, all the time ? People often "show" themselves in their behavior. Of course it is your choice, but just an older person's opinion.
2007-02-24 14:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure nothing happend? like maybe he died, or his email account got haxed, or canceled... or maybe he went on vaca. maybe he was married now and his wife found out.. who knows, im sure there are a lot of explanations.... i would drop it... maybe his new wife or g/f is really pissed, and you writing back might not help. best of luck, im sorry to hear that.. ive had a similar situation, and still havent heard back, and it bugs ,me even a year later, but , oh well, i got another good friend
2007-02-24 14:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop it for now, unless he starts communicating
2007-02-24 14:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he is not writing you back then maybe he is too busy
2007-02-24 14:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Octavio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋