What do you think about a threesome? That is with another woman? I go back and forth. I think it would just cause alot of problems. But you alls opinion would be nice.
2007-02-24 14:27:22 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Many, many men fantasize about that, but for most of us, that's all it ever is - a fantasy. It certainly is less thought about by women. How would you feel finding out the love of your life wants to get it on with another woman? And in your presence, at that? Could you handle it? Suppose he did you both, one after the other, in the same bed? Would that turn you on, or would you find it somehow cheapened you and your relationship? Think long and hard about it, and I bet you'll soon realize why it so rarely happens.
2007-02-24 14:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married but yes I had a threesome once with 2 guys it turned out okay. Then I had a threesome with a friend of mine's boyfriend and it was okay for me because I was not emotionally involved. It would bother me though if my boyfriend wanted a threesome. It just destroys that sacred bond and my future level of trust.Ask him if he would do it but with another guy and see what your reaction is.
2007-02-24 14:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will cause problems, almost certainly. Its such a great fantasy, and seems like it would be fun. Who wouldn't want two warm bodies to play with for a night? But people are emotional creatures who need love and comfort and security, and the moment your hubby begins to fantasize about the other woman instead of you, it will hurt. Orrr, maybe you will enjoy it so much that sex with your hubby will seem sort of boring, and he will be hurt. If the experience is good and fun, you will want it more at the expense of the one-on-one relationship you now enjoy.
2007-02-24 14:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you got married you committed to each other and only each other. Bringing someone else into the relationship like that would be pretty much breaking those committments in my oppinion. And even tho people say they wouldn't get jealous they do and it causes a lot of problems down the road. If you love each other than you'll be enough for each other. Try some other way to spruce up your sex life
2007-02-24 15:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't bring a 3rd person into your bedroom. It maybe fun in the beginning but will cause problems later on. It's like giving your SO permision to cheat while you watch or help.
Lots of people do it and say it doesnt cause them any problems but if you are going to do that why be married? My opinion is no don't do it.
2007-02-24 14:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As they say if it feels good then do it.
If all three of you are comportable with it then there is no reason not to. If you are not then it might not be a good idea.
Have had a threesom but not during mrrage. Two came to my house and offfered themselves so why not. Actually it was not that great. I still think one one is better.
2007-02-24 14:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a lot easier to think about it than to follow thru. As the wife, I would have serious doubts that everything would end at the "end" of the session. Also, I would have major rules.
And then there's the whole STD thing. I just can't get past "what if" we had that enter into our lives after one night of pleasure.
2007-02-24 14:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by avioletsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in threesomes you shouldn't be married. Marriage is sacred and the marriage bed should only be between husband and wife. GOD Bless
2007-02-24 14:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL ONLY WORK IF UR A FREAK AND U & UR HUSBAND ARE INTO THE SAME FREAKY STUFF....tht's why freaky ppl. should marry other freaky ppl. if this is 4 u don't do it until ur absolutely ok with it...when u start having visions & dreams of another girl's muff in ur mouth/his mouth or rubbing on ur crotch then ur ready..... if that grosses u out DON'T DO IT!!!!!
BOTH U/HUSBAND HAVE TO BE ON THE EXACT SAME LEVEL..no joke!!
P.S.everyone here is very smart pls listen to us all and do the right thing 4 u
2007-02-24 14:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dee X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can anyone has a threesome when you are married? aren't you committed to your husband/wife? i think that it would be wrong. i could never do that. not even if my husband begged me. i would never be able to get that picture out of my head, him and another woman. NO WAY!!!!!
2007-02-24 14:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋