my problem here is that i have alot of respect for girls, i dont just go out with them to have sex and stuff, i have WAY more respect for them, but scence im like this most guys make fun of me and call me gay, it is really annoying, im going to save my virginity till i get married, is it wrong that i dont just go out with girls to have sex?? are those guys who make fun of me just jealouse? i try to not let it bother me but it does. any suggestions?
2007-02-24 14:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Not a girl, but you know. A question off limits is a must read. The answer is simple. Don't let it bother you. Guys are of the nature that if you are different you are enemy. What if you have what it takes to take their girlfriend from them. You are a threat. Who cares.
2007-02-24 14:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by earth_bound2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you can't help worrying about what other people say (it is human nature,) but please do not let peer pressure dictate your actions. People doing wrong or harmful things try to get others to do the same wrong things, "If everyone's doing it, it can't be all that bad." They are trying to make themselves feel better by dragging others down. If what they were doing was all OK, then would they announce their actions to their parents/grandparents?
You are the one who has to live with your decisions. Make decisions you can live with.
Don't risk making a baby until you are ready to be a parent. Child support is 14% of gross income for 18 years.
2007-02-24 22:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by just_tracy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way...it's wrong getting a girl just to have sex with them. D:<
I think it's good that you're a nonconformist and choose to stick to your moral beliefs. Don't listen to your friends lol.
Anyhoo, in the female society, if you actually do get chicks just to mess around with them in bed, do know that eventually word would get out, since girls gossip so much, and then no girl would want to date you because they know your true intent. And let's not forget about STD's, shall we? =D
2007-02-24 22:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jenjen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great that you're saving yourself, we need more men like you. :)
I'm also a virgin and I'm 20. I'm the envy of all my friends, (cause I've never been soiled) so every guy is interested in trying to be my first.
I'm also saving for marriage
2007-02-24 22:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a respectful person and I think more boys should be like you instead of brainless insensitive meatheads.
There is nothing wrong. Just wait.
2007-02-24 22:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by catch_the_snitch_48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't there something in between meaningless sex and married sex? Couldn't you have sex with someone you were in love with even if you weren't married?
2007-02-24 22:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋