Where can i find yaoi videos, beside IRC, bittorent, aarfantasy.?

Answer 1

Lets ask this first.
What videos are you looking for?
Pretty much every single animated yaoi is listed on aarinfantasy and is available by bittorrent.

If you have something in mind, please state what it is that you're looking for.
So you know, there have not been many new yaoi videos made in a while. The closest to the newest is Sukishyo and thats really shounen-ai.
So your luck is pretty low right now.