my friend likes the same guy as me and we had our v-day dance yesterday and she told me that she would not go out with him and during the dance she was dirty dancing with him and is now his girlfriend what should i do plus her friend which i cant stand was trying to make me cry like she said ya they were all over each other and that she felt bad 4 me b/c i could not get a guy what should i do i am 12 years old so i cant do much!!??
2007-02-24 13:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by roxy babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Welcome to life!
This might happen to you quite a few times in the future, so it's best to work through your feelings and experience them.
If he chooses another woman, that's it.
This happened to me at the 8th Grade end of year Picnic, but actually it was sort of a relief---he was the cutest boy in our class, too. But it taught me a life-lesson, so it was well worth the shock. Let the other girls laugh---they'll be humiliated too, over and over in their love-lifes, too----so don't let this get you down.
2007-02-24 13:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your school work and don't hang around with sluts. Forget boys. You have over 12 years to go to school still.
If you get involved with boys you will start having sex soon and then a baby and then your boyfriend will run off and you will be stuck with a kid and can't get a decent job because you can't get a degree in college and you will be waitressing for the rest of your life and marry some poor dude who drives a beat up pick up truck and you will end up in a trailer park on food stamps and buying your clothes in a thrift store. Stay away from boys until you are older. Put yourself on a "Boy diet" or a "Boy-boycott".
2007-02-24 13:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by amazedmaize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maddie, there is historical asserting, "appreciate him, yet suspect him". while you're that stricken by using this youthful guy, you have 3 aspects to evaluate. one million. Why is he quickly displaying this way of interest to you? that's advisable to think of in terms of the previous television instruct happy Days, Fonzie consistently mentioned, "Be Cool" and "Do each little thing with cool". he's a guy and he has various hormonal capability at this point in his existence. i'm writing like your father now ! additionally 2. Why are YOU so stricken by using this youthful guy? ask your self, what's it approximately him or me that gets me all shy and embarrassed? what's it approximately him (or me) that gets me all shook up? NOW 3. the main serious difficulty is: you're somebody with presents, skills and unique seems that no person else has. Ask your college counselor to point some flair and activity tests you could take to be taught approximately your self. once you have a extra advantageous experience of what your presents are, you will discover that it incredibly is going to likely be lots extra durable to reason you to be shy or timid -- notably around the option intercourse. advantages to you, finally
2016-12-18 10:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she isn't much of a friend. Maybe you need to tell this guy what she did to you then he might think much of her either sounds like she will flirt with him and later dump him. She might have just did it to see if she could get the guy you like some power thing anyways. I would say something or just in time I am sure if won't be long she will move on.
2007-02-24 13:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. if u two were meant for each other. no wait. who started the dirty dancing? cuz if it was him u dont need him in ur life cuz he will just be this bag of hormones and will sooner or later totally disgust u and will probably make u horny and unpure. but anyway if it was meant to be, dont sweat it.
2007-02-24 13:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I'm 13, and that kind of happened to me. Well tell Ur friend how you feel. that's what your suppose to do with friends, tell them the truth. You can't just keep it inside and not do anything exspeically at that age. Good Luck =]
2007-02-24 13:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u are ONLY 12..so dont stress it!! in 5 years that guys prolly gunna forget her and a 12 year old bf dont really count..no one remembers those when theyr teens and older!!
2007-02-24 13:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Roxy babe well is there someone else out there that you like.
Because if she did that on purpose well get another boy that is hott and you like, or you can give up and say sshe wins.
2007-02-24 13:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋