Hi!! So I have a prob. There is this girl, crystal, we both are in our school's volleyball team...on thursday I went to the practice of the boy's team (because our season is over, but coach still lets us practice with the guys) & she keeps on looking @ me with this face of hatred. Everytime I tend to talk she looks @ me as if I were stupid or something. What should I do? Do I ask her personally whats wrong? Well, I have another prob. I'm scared of talking in practice, it seems like ALL the girls hate me!!! I havent done anything, I barely talk, & they're still mean to me!!! Should I just quit this team? HELP!!!
2007-02-24 13:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by MARGARITA F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
btw...im extremely shy, I cant just say to person "hey whats going on" you know be tough!!!
2007-02-24 13:41:11 · update #1
Maybe she is jealous of you? do you have something she would want? cute boyfriend, pretty face, nice car, great sports skills? High school girls are really really mean. it's just how it is. please dont quit the team, don't give her the satisfaction! If you dont thinkyou can handle asking her whats up, then just ignore her, let her stare. if she confronts you deal with it then but otherwise things will probably die down with time.
2007-02-24 13:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by kerri c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No darling, you shudn't quit the team just bcuz of that matter. If she looks at you with that look, then look at her back with the same look. Maybe sum1 spreaded rumors bout you behind your bck. If the other girls act mean to you too, confront them and ask them why their always acting mean to you. If they just walk away, then u should too and ignore them. If they know the reason you should try to understand it. Try and talk with a counselor about this, or a teacher or your parents. Maybe they cn help. I have problems like yours. But i confront the person, then she's afraid of me. Be strong! Luck to you frm me!
2007-02-24 13:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't quit the team! Approach them and ask them what's wrong. There are those times when you just have to be brave and I think this is one of those times. If it didn't work then just ignore them. It maybe tough but they still not worth quitting the team.
2007-02-24 14:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just ignore them as if you don't even notice. It'll be hard for you to just pull her/them to the side and ask them is their a problem that they have with you since your a shy and nice person. So just be yourself and just be nice. If they still act the same way, you might have to throw down with them. Fighting isn't good, but if you don't stand up for yourself, people are just gonna walk all over you. I hope you won't have to. If you do, just make sure you swing first ^_~.
2007-02-24 14:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by soaddicted2this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be nice to them. If they're still mean to you just ignore them, i know it's hard, but getting into a fight doesn't help anybody. Don't quit the team, they're not worth it. If it makes you happy then do it!
2007-02-24 13:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by beachbum0694 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm.... don't quit! that would mean they won and u gotta show them that you aren't afraid of them. usually when girls do that that means they are jealous of you. just ask them why they do that and if they get all b*tchy on you just be like i was just wondering but since apparently you don't want to tell me I won't ask again. that will throw them off and they will probably tell you or be nicer. but remember everything has the possibility of a consequence so it could just make them be meaner.
i wish you tons of luck! don't let them get to you!
2007-02-24 13:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll give u a good lesson once a *****, always a *****, leave them alone if thats the way they wanna be ignore the face they just want to see u feel small, walk past them with ur head high, dont even bother to talk to them if they arent going to be nice to u
2007-02-24 14:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to ignore them. You can't turn them into decent human beings.
If they continue to make you feel badly, or if you feel bullied. Please tell a trusted adult to help intervene.
You don't have to put up with that.
2007-02-24 13:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♣IRiSh♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋