I have yet to experienced a penile penetration. I do satisfy myself through masturbation. I do digitally penetrate myself with one finger. If I do have sex now how much will it hurt. Will it still hurt eventhough I play with myself? I workout regularly. Not sure if that will help my case. Serious anwers only. Anybody who has similar experience I would like to hear from you.
2007-02-24 13:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
To make it clear, I meant vaginal penetration. Category should have been Singles/Dating. I'm heterosexual female.
2007-02-24 15:30:51 · update #1
Anal sex doesn't hurt if you relax your butt and use lube. Get some KY and practice with your fingers.
2007-02-24 13:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by twilight_moon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assuming since you are in the GLBT section that you are asking about anal sex? It hurts for the first time despite your age. The fact that you use your finger helps because you have some idea of how it feels. If you want to be more prepared for your first time buy anal beeds, a small dildo and astroglide. Astroglide is the best silacone based lube out there. Use a good bit of it. Play with yourself so you are looser for your first time. That way it will hurt less when you want it to matter most.
If you are talking about vaginal penetration then pretty much the same applies minus the beads. You may want to try two fingers instead of one and for your first time don't be afraid to ask him to use some extra lube.
Just make sure your partner is understanding and doesn't try to rush things and it should be a positive experiance.
2007-02-24 15:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went 14 years. My celibacy was ended a few months ago. There is now a wonderful man in my life and I am so glad that he was the second first time. YES, it was uncomfortable. At my age, in the beginning we needed help with lubrication. My doctor gave me estrogen to be applied vaginally and that has helped a lot! I highly recommend sex in our old age. For one thing, we don't have to worry about pregnancy anymore!
2007-02-24 13:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it actually depends on your partner. if he is careful, and uses lubricant, then it will hurt a little bit. to enjoy sex both of you should talk about it, and make sure that both of you agrees to do such things. good luck.
2007-02-24 13:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by patric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an expierienced partner he will know what to do to keep you happy and pain free.
2007-02-24 13:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by STEVE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't help you no longer than months , invest in K-Y and kegals( exercises to keep you flexed)
2007-02-24 13:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wouldn't even know it. Don't worry.
2007-02-25 09:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Manatee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a girl than just- BANG THAT ***** AS HARD AND LONG A POSSIBLE!!! IT WONT HURT THAT BAD
2007-02-24 13:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
rimming will help.
2007-02-24 14:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋