2007-02-24 13:20:22 · 18 answers · asked by Kristi K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We were discussing the fact that after he got off of work today after leaving the house at 4:30 this morning, he went to his uncles' home and sat there for most of the afternoon like he was done with work at 1:30 did not come home until 6 tonight. Asked him how come it is ok for him to do whatever and I am the one always to stay with our 7 month old, and get to see other people in the public maybe one or two times a month.
2007-02-24 13:36:39 · update #1
I'd laugh, and say if I did grow up you wouldn't have any fun.
2007-02-24 13:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kristi---you haven't given the whole story here--no details means I have to guess---your husband has found something about you or what you do, as unpleasant and in need of some rethinking....he married a girl he thought was grown up enough to build a relationship, let love grow, so to speak. Along with all that comes the need to communicate---something you two don't seem to do too well. So pick a nice time to sit and calmly discuss the issues that he might have.Ask what it is he had a problem with--maybe it IS a thing you have to work on. But He needs to work on his communications skills, too. He should be able to discuss things as an adult, and with respect. So you do the opening and talk calmly about it, and see if there is any validity to what he said. DO NOT YELL AND SCREAM--that will be counter productive and drag the issue down even further. Do the right thing, be nice and good luck
2007-02-24 21:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will start growing up by going out like an adult and let him watch his child for a while..I bet he'll think your grown up pretty quick after watching the baby.
2007-02-24 21:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by jesika1132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the answer to that would in part depend upon why he told you that. Maybe it has a lot to do with what you do, how you act and so forth. Not saying that maybe it isnt him, but then it could be you too.
2007-02-24 21:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like he needs to grow up when he gets home you go out for a couple of hours he'll get the picture
2007-02-25 00:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by funguytank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband never has....but if he did he would get "I may grow older but i'll never grow up." sound advise I got a long time ago from my aunt who is now 80 and still young at heart.
2007-02-24 21:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does not tell me this at all. I tell him lol. Why is your husband telling you to grow up anyway? Are you acting like a child? Is he alot older then you?
2007-02-24 21:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him to shut the fuckup talking to me.And he's the one that needs to grow the **** up.
2007-02-25 10:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you to grow up, you didn't have to say anything. You should have stomped up to your room, slammed the door, and then yelled out " I hate You!" LOL
2007-02-24 21:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell mine, "look I am old enough to mother your sorry a$$ so I guess I'm plenty grown up"
2007-02-24 21:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Trisha J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋