well i have sat here and asked a few questions bout my marrage and my house ,done lots of strumming over things and fiqure for my kids sake i should leave the house to the wife and let her have all the furniture and me to just disappear or jump. i can't take this anymore i've forgiving over affairs b4 and gave her whatever she demanded,done most of the housework,and gone with public transport so she can have the car and yet it happens to me over and over again,so sum time this week i will see my boss bout paying out any money owed and then bye bye world
2007-02-24 13:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by stuffed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can understand where your coming from but disappearing isn't the answer.. the answer is to find someone else.. obviously your wife doesn't appreciate you for who you are... I'm sure there is someone out there for you that will see what a wonderful person you are... just give it a chance!
2007-02-24 13:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although it's very generous of you to think of your children, you do deserve enough to live. Is your wife worth it? Obviously not. Your children need their father more than they need ALL of the furniture. It sounds as though you are beating a dead horse by trying to salvage your marriage repeatedly. Your wife is selfish, she is thinking only of herself. You need to get a good lawyer, get half the money from the sale of the house, half the furniture and half of everything else, then when your children come to visit you they will have a home to come to. Your wife cheated, that is not your fault. You can find someone to share your life with, someone who will appreciate you and love you. Not all women are like your wife. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life. Don't wait around to see if she wants you, decide what you want for yourself. You should see a counsellor. Good luck.
2007-02-24 21:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you even talk like that ? If you do something like that what about the kids , its not their fault this is happening . If you think she is a bad role model for your kids why would you leave them to be raised with her . If you have a baby daughter you should be there for her to teach her to be and act like a lady . If you have a son you should raise him to never let a lady walk all over him . Now if you choose to end your life who is going to teach them these things ? Do you want her to teach your daughter to be like her or to teach your son to let women do whatever to him ! NO , You are a better person then her ! Right now you don't know and will never know if you do the unthinkable , that there is a respectful lady waiting for you some where in this world . I will pray for you and those babies . They need you more then the air you breath , you are their air and love don't do this to yourself or them ! Good Luck !!!!!
2007-02-24 21:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn what ever you do don't give up on yourself and let the ***** win that's what shes trying for I'm 51 with 2 exes the first got everything the 2nd i got fed up and dared her to try and touch my kid my house my car my everything she knew i meant business to she got the hell out of here.
So stand your ass up and be a man don't give in to these woman's wont's .Who cares what the hell they wont there all so screwed up today they don't know what they wont.
Hang in there the harder she pushes the harder you push back
Take your life back to hell with her become proud of yourself again.
2007-02-24 21:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move out and get a place of your own and seek counseling and help for how you feel so that you can start to get past this. Suicide and taking your life is not the answer here. Do not do this! It is not worth losing your life over. File for divorce when you leave and get help to heal and move on with your life without her in it. Go to http://www.drphil.com and email him for help in this matter as well. PLEASE I am begging you do not kill yourself!
2007-02-24 21:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude I hear ya. I TOTALLY hear ya. Let's pick a bridge.
But before that, look at your past relationship. I have to, too. We made bad choices. You did what I did, hung too long to see if we can make them happy. And they never will be - with us. That doesn't mean we can't find good people to love - does it? Wait.....
Don't pick the bridge without me. But, maybe we can meet for coffee first .. hehehe...
2007-02-24 21:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let her have that much power over you! She has all your inner power, please do not give her that satisfaction and if you are doing it to make her feel guilty it will not work. Email me and I will talk to you I have been in a very similar situation. You are a wonderful person and you WILL get through this.shawclint@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 21:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are gonna disapear make sure you cancel the life insurence , or at least take the wife off as benifitiary , and make sure you disapear where no one will find you
2007-02-24 21:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is not that bad. At least you aren't in Iraq checking cars for bombs. Don't hurt yourself.
2007-02-24 21:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do don't take your life you will go to hell for it so please don't no women or man is worth it im seprated and im not going to lie i've thought about it but its not worth going to hell for the bible says thy shall not kill one of ten commandments so just divorce and find some one that loves you
2007-02-28 20:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋