ssues now we broke i just called it quits because i had enough but he has a tendacy to always wait for a few days and return i really want to say goodby but i do miss and love him i just know that the same old isues keep returning and im no highschooler what would u do if you were in my shoes
2007-02-24 13:06:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After 4 years you would think he would know by now what he wants. But since he gets away with running offf and having a good time doing whatever he wants and then when he gets tired he knows he can come home to you, I can see what is going on. Can't you? He has it all. He can be there with you and then when he wants to go wonder he starts a fight and he leaves and plays and then comes home. If I were in your shoes , when he came "home" his **** would be outside with a note saying, "sorry pal , you find somewhere else to sleep until your next adventure". And I would be done and stick to it. When he sees that you have a backbone and stick up for yourself maybe he will start treating you with some respect. But if he does start this don't let him back in that door too soon or you will be back at square one.
2007-02-24 13:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the relationship has lasted this long because you just got comfortable with each other, instead of getting out there to find someone new.i dont think you have stayed together because you are in love anymore. there is a difference between in love and loving someone. cut your ties. get out there and explore new ground. life is short and its what you make it.
2007-02-24 13:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by dynamite136 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short. Look for the better fish in the sea. He is out there!!! Good luck!
2007-02-24 13:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help if you mention the issues .Don't mo what the problem is so can't help.
2007-02-24 13:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋