Ummm i know lots of ppl are gonna say that I'm too young but I know I'm not so well I'm 13 and my bf is also 13. We have been dating since September and we are going to hug Monday for the first time. I know I know it took us a while but still we have talked about kissing and I thought that he was scared to kiss me but then i asked his friends and they asked him and he said he wasn't but he thought i was and they told him that I wouldn't have brought it up if i was scared and Im not scared. But i don't know when I should kiss him or where b/c we r in middle school and ive seen my friends kiss in school after the bell rang before they go to their buses but idk when i should?
2007-02-24 13:02:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Awww thats sweet. Wow you guys go slower than most 13 year olds. You should kiss its not terrible to kiss. Most girls get their first kiss at your age. As for when don't worry, when the time is right it will happen.
2007-02-24 13:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a 14 year old boy, so I can relate. You should probably think about if you are ready to move onto a new point in your relationship. Also, think about that this is your 1st kiss and you cannot have it back. I think that you may be a little bit young, but if you feel it, just do it!
2007-02-24 13:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by mcvcm92 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt try anything new if the both of you are not ready... its good that you guys are talking about these sorts of things though. it shows that you are mature enough to know how serious things can be and how important they are. but as a girl... i wouldnt be the first to go in for a kiss. let him kiss you first (if yall are ready) that way he will be more willing to work for you. guys like it when a girl isnt too easy. good luck
2007-02-24 13:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by spastik_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really cute u havent hugged him yet
i think u shoudl first hug him.. then see how it goes from there lie move slowly on with it
for kissing... start just with a kiss on the cheek.. lol less emabrassing
kiss on the lips may be far away in the future for u and dont mind it
if u really want to kiss him.. just on the cheek =) hope everything works well for u
2007-02-24 13:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by jersey_689 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are the same age and trust me I know what your going though.I knew my BF since kindergarten.I hate him now. If you are planning to hug then give it some time, no matter how much you want to kiss him. If he feels the same you'll know it. Don't let it be planned. If it's planned you won't enjoy it. Good luck.
2007-02-24 13:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by hmpaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the least intimidating kiss is honestly without tounge. it's a lot let to worry about and there's a lot less technique to learn. so kind of an open mouth without tounge but make sure he knows the plan and doesnt use tounge or it could be ugly. it really depends on your guys, honestly. do what feels right.
2007-02-24 13:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by anna c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. Yea kiss him girl! Whats the worst that could happen? If you have been dating since september then why not? If it turns out bad im sure it wont nd your relationship! :)
2007-02-24 13:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by la_chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not follow others! it will be a huge mistake. if you don't know if you should kiss or not then your not ready. kisses arent planned and when it comes to that time to happen you will know. you are only 13! don't follow others. i'm older than you and alot of kids in my skool kissed and i haven't yet, and i'm glad. kisses r special. dont ruin it cuz of what others do or say.
2007-02-24 13:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it one step at a time. If you haven't hugged him yet, then it is probably too early to suggest kissing. Give it some time, you have plenty of it!
2007-02-24 13:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, you don't need to go "all out." what is wrong with a peck on the cheek? but really, it's up to you. you know how you feel and if kissing him would be too awkward for you and what not.
2007-02-24 13:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by *PrEpPy!* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋