I am 26yrs old. I will never be able to conceive...so should i marry or not?? please help..?

Answer 1

if you find the right guy you can always adopt

Answer 2

Children are not the only reason for marrying (though some people would like us to think they are...), so I would suggest there's little connection between an inability to conceive and whether you should marry. There are many other ways to raise or otherwise care for children if you and your partner desire this at some point after marriage (adoption, surrogacy, foster care, relatives and friends, your job, etc.). And there is also the possibility of not undertaking any sort of child-rearing. There is nothing that says you MUST bear and/or raise children in order to have a "valid" marriage. (Though there are, unfortunately, some politicos trying to change this.) It's all in what you and any potential marriage partner want...not what society "dictates".

Answer 3

Of course you should marry. Marriage does not always have to include children. And if your partner really loves you for the right reason and knows you cannot conceive but still want a family there are other ways to have a family...like adoption options or even foster care options.

Answer 4

Of course you can get married!!! Having children doesn't have to have anything to do with marriage. I have a son and I'm not married. You can always adopt and there are ways for your husband's sperm and another woman's egg to be united without sexual intercourse. Even with a best friend who is willing to have your child for you. Sisters can do it too! There are TONS of options and then you and your hubby can have a little sweety together and raise the child like there was never any problems.
Also, I was told I couldn't concieve because I had cervical cancer. They got rid of it but said there was going to be damage that would not allow me to get pregnant. Less than a year later at 17 years old, I was pregnant. Check with more than one doctor just to make sure sweety. Good Luck!

Answer 5

sure , there are many other reasons to get married. Make sure the guy knows you cant have children though.

You can consider adoption , and you may have a child by implantation of an embryo.

Your options depend on exactly why you are unable to conceive.

Answer 6

The fact that you can't have kids doesn't mean you are condemned to being lonely. Find a nice guy - get married! The ability to get pregnant should not have any effect on love. If you really want to have children, adopt. It's that simple. Don't condemn yourself because of something you can't even control. Love is wonderful! Don't deny yourself the pleasure of it.

Answer 7

Sorry for your problem, but that has absolutely nothing to do with whether you should get married or not. Open your mind up a little. And if the person who you are thinking of marrying thinks like this then you're better off not marrying them.

Answer 8

Ability to conceive has nothing to do with getting married. Just make sure that your future spouse knows. You can always adopt, have foster children, etc. Don't sweat it.

Answer 9

Usually the conception begins after marriage. Marry and worry about having children later.

Answer 10

I would be sure to disclose that info to your loved one before he becomes your soon -to -be. There are other ways to become parents even if you cannot have children together. How important is a family too both of you?Life and Love will give you guidance and direction you need!

Answer 11

Of course you should marry and be happy. If you and your husband decide you really want children, there are plenty out there to adopt.