Im not bad looking,im kinda nice and well behaive, well travel and educated.... but is just im f..Ck ing afraid of everything in life, and im tired of it. TIRED
2007-02-24 12:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
be more specific-- what in life are you afraid of?
It can't possibly be everything. Or else, you wouldn't be on the internet --because of your fear.
2007-02-24 13:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. First stop being afraid and face life head on. You have to realize that what you are 'afraid of' is the very thing that will help you advance in life.
So set a goal, anything you want; start out small if that's easiest. Work toward that and when you achieve it set another higher goal. Then repeat.
And start doing things that will make you happy; do something for yourself. I believe happiness is the key to all, because if you are not happy there is no point in living life and everything becomes worthless.
So get to it! Set goals and stick with them, be productive, and most of all just be happy!!!!
2007-02-24 21:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we wish to locate ourselves (you feel lost - right) we need to identify the map in which to look and how definite and zoomed in we wish to be.
Do you wish to know
- how you would be remebered by the world or by your freinds?
- what your identity in your surroundings is?
- where you are heeded and what your immediate future is?
- what you have acheived so far and whether you have done well or bad?
OK here is what I think.
1st - you will not be remembered for long. People do not get to talk very often about people as great as Edison or Einstein or Mahatma Gandhi so why would they talk of us. Your freinds and near ones will miss you anyway for a while whether you are good or bad - it does not matter - but you occupy a space and when it is vacated it would stand out for a while.
2nd - your identity is the company you keep. You can improve it as much as you wish starting now.
3rd - No one knows. Nothing in future is certain. With the pace of scientific improvements it is not unthinkable that even death is uncertain.
4th - You have done well. You are not the worst and you cannot be the best for ever.
Stop pitying yourself. Self pity will tire you more. You may have exhausted your zeal to improve your talents or to acquire newer skills but life has a motion of itself and you cannot live faster or slower. You may not be steering for a while but that is fine. It's OK to be on Autopilot mode for a while.
2007-02-25 13:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by smartobees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter, how well behaved, travelled or good looking we might be, real confidence and poise comes only when we begin to love and accept ourselves just the way we are, as that is when self respect begins.
God bless you,
2007-02-24 21:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't be afraid of it.You can't have fun all the time.You have had fun,fun and fun for a long time.Now give yourself a break.Just face it .it is just another phase in your life.
2007-02-25 05:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by uncoolmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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ever let fear rule your life or sooner then later it will take over
what ever I'm afraid to do.
I do it any way just to show fear that it has no hold over me and every time I do I gain from it always something good I might add
2007-02-27 22:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by cute as a button 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow the light.
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2007-02-25 01:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋