Why is my girlfriend trying to find another girl for a threesome? We have a great sex life and a good honest relationship. i like it when she gets kinky, but won't it hurt our relationship?
2007-02-24 12:17:18 · 13 answers · asked by mygirlfriendsafreak 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its not that i am against it but i have heard it may hurt our relationship... what are your experiences? Did it hurt your relationship?
2007-02-24 12:31:34 · update #1
My wife and I have done this, and it brought us closer together. It depends on the couple. Talk to her about your concerns. Ask her why she is doing this. If she says she's doing it for her, tell her honestly that you don't need it. If she says she wants to try it and you want to try it, then I don't see a problem with it, just be prepared for it to be a once in a lifetime experience.
2007-02-26 01:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If She Doesn't Try To Take It Too Far With The Woman...If You Know She Truly Loves You. You Shouldn't Have To Worry. She Is Probably Trying To Keep Up The Spice In Your Sex Life That's All
2007-02-24 20:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's interested in keeping it kinky for you. If you have the "honest" relationship you mention, you will discuss your concerns with her,
Kabum
2007-02-24 20:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by kabum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just wants to experience something new WITH YOU! You both should sit down and discuss how/if this is something you both want to do and then move on to who this other person will be. Just make sure you're comfortable with it and will be able to handle it. Women are different than men in sooo many ways! Good luck to you!
P.S. ENJOY!
2007-02-24 21:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by San Francisco Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not in agreement about bringing a third person in, your relationship will likely fail. It sounds like your girlfriend is bi/curious at the very least, and you don't seem in agreement, so what do you think will happen?
2007-02-24 20:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it will only hurt the relationship if you do not want her to be intimate with anyone but you. But if you are okay with her being with other people in that way then you should be good.
2007-02-24 20:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by The Angry Stick Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeppp. If you're not into it, then it'll eventually turn into a twosome between them and that'll be a definite problem, right? Let her know you don't want to do that and if she respects you, she'll understand that and forget the idea.
2007-02-24 20:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by 'tis I. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your g-friend is a fruitcake...and not wife material. But for now, why stop at bringing one more woman? Ask her to bring twenty or thirty of her g-friends...and youwould help her do them all... That's what I would do... A great deal...
2007-02-24 20:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by kalamity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will hurt your relationship. I think you need to let her go.
2007-02-24 20:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, and tell her you don't want to do it. But just from experience..... Two girls? HOT!!!
2007-02-24 20:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋