I'm so stupid, because I thought she would just ride in with the joke, i didn't know that i offended her..what should i do?I think may wjhole world crumbled down...Am i a good friend?please help
2007-02-24 12:09:37 · 24 answers · asked by joeblogs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Really; tell her it was not intended...you did not mean to, take her some flowers with you. If she likes you she will forgive you and things will go back to normal...now let her cool off , do not get all over her with apology and stuff...give her space and in a day or 2 take her the flowers...and go back to your space...she will let you, then she will gradually come back on her own...
You must mean it when you say: you will be careful next time not to offend her....
2007-03-04 05:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand the limits of your friends. Your not a bad friend but you should do something creative. If this friend is worth the effort then Send them a pizza with I'm sorry written on it like in that movie or dedicate a song to them. Something that's public and personal and if they dont accept then its there lose they lost a good Friend to. Good Luck!
2007-03-04 18:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by bright_green_dress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Just say you r really sorry, and that your friendship means a lot! Look, just give it some itme after that. Then she might give u another chance. Just try to b a good friend, and dont say anything else to offend her, whether it is an accident, or not. GL!
2007-02-24 20:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters do you think that you r a good friend??? And if you screwed up really big then you need to make up in an even bigger way. Next time think before you speak especially for a person you care about!!!
2007-02-24 20:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by shiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you probaly should have told her what was going on and then mybe she would have been able to help you out with the joke, but if they are a true friend then the small things shouldnt matter, they can be mad about because you may have put her in a hard place. but she should get over it
2007-03-04 14:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Yana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too good of a friend if you offended her, try to buy her some flowers with a card that says i am sorry i was so insensative.
2007-02-24 20:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real men never do anything to apologize for, if you find yourself saying i am sorry, you need to stop before you act. you can say, it is unfortunate my comments had a negative affect on you. it's her fault then and almost forms an apology, but not really. if you are being tested, you have already lost by saying you are sorry. the best policy is to act like it never happened, the bigger you make it the bigger it gets.
2007-02-24 20:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow tell her again that your sorry and that it was a joke give her something a card or something and next time don't play with her like that iif you know she can't take a joke.
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2007-02-24 20:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that it was a joke and you didnt know she would get affended. dont beat urself up over it. write her a note or something if she wont listen to you in person. just try your hardest to get the message through to her that you didnt mean to hurt her and you are really really seriously deep down sorry
2007-02-24 20:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. I'd work on doing things to show her how much she means to you. Keep doing that until she is ready to forgive you for your idiocy. Tact comes harder for some of us and we sometimes have to learn this lesson the hardway. Good luck!
2007-03-04 18:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by stormc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋