I met this girl at the skating rink and she is 2yrs younger than me and goes to my school. I like her and want to ask her out but i don't know how especially since she has a boyfriend and doesnt know im gay. And my friends asked me if i liked her and i said no at first but then i realized that i did, how did they know i liked her b4 i knew it?
2007-02-24 12:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dont ask her out.
shes straight
and not gay
so she will say no.
and your friends knew u liked her before you did probably because they know you.
thats true friends my dear.
2007-02-24 12:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by basketballstar0707 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever had a girlfriend? I am going to go ahead and guess no. I am not trying to put you down, just be open minded about what I am about to say. Your problem is that you started liking some girl you knew was straight from the begining, your mind shouldn't have even gone there. If she is straight, AND two years younger than you ( I am guessing you are very young yourself) chances are NOTHING is going to happen with this girl, which is a nice safe place for you to hang out in. The reason I say this is because it is something that is very commonplace among young lesbians, they get a crush on a straight girl because they know that eventually nothing is going to happen. It is a safe way to express a feeling of liking women without actually having to do anything about it. Not ready to do anything about it? Its OK, take your time. Just think about things and be honest with yourself. If I am way off base and this didn't help, I am trully sorry.
2007-02-24 20:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your friends knew you liked her from your body language or the way you were behaving when you were in her presence. Secondly I wouldn't ask the girl out for two reasons. 1. She may not be bi sexual and you don't want to offend her and 2 she has a boyfriend. Since you like her there's nothing wrong with being her friend and seeing where things go from there. I think that's the safest bet.
2007-02-24 20:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by piercedambition 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice, check and see if she's gay or bi, but be discreete. You don't want to be hitting on the straight girls; it's awkward and potentially dangerous. As far as others knowing, my therapist knew I had issues long before I realized I was bi. I was floored when I found out! If she's gay or bi, see about talking to her, spending time with her, etc. Again, be discreete. If she's straight, leave her alone and find another (something other than straight) hottie! Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-24 20:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jorell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends know you well, so they probably know the best for you. Try making a friendship with her and really get to know her
2007-02-24 20:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ari ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You are not thinking of trying to recruit her to the dark side are you?
2007-02-24 20:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you be honest with your feelings, and go talk to her she is not going to hurt you the worst will happen is she not guy.
2007-02-24 20:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get 2 know her better!
2007-02-24 20:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by hopeless_romantic_♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need JESUS
2007-02-24 20:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Katie E 3 · 0⤊ 8⤋