Is it sign of impotence ? He is difficult to get arouse now .?

Question

My boy friend is 45 years old and we only meet few months once as I work overseas. The last time we made love was 4 months ago and I discovered that he cannot really get hard on.....I guess he was tired because of work. Recently when I was with him, he was hard to get arouse...I am not dare to ask him straight away, seems that he is avoiding the subject...Is that sign of impotence or he just lost interest in me?? He still care for me very much. For the past few year he is doing well, but come quickly. Any opinion or similiar experience to share with me ? Thanks

Answer 1

Is he in good physical condition? Is he emotionally fit? Does he have a know health condition? Is he a "work-a-holic"? His problem with arousal may not be a problem at all. It may be a symptom of other problems. He should see a doctor. Don't just run for the viagra. He needs to get a check-up.

Answer 2

Michelle L,
He may have a medical condition so talk to him about it. This could also offer a sense of comfort and tell him you want to help him to become a stud! Have him make a appointment with a urologist and get checked.

Answer 3

Use it or lose it. He didn't use it and so he lost it ! This is especially true after the age 40 for men and after menopause for women.

Get him Viagra next time

Answer 4

Could be he is having some difficulty, I went through this with my ex who was around the same age. Have him try viagra good luck

Answer 5

Although most men don't want to admit it, it does happen to a lot of them in their 40s. I can understand you not wanting to talk to him about it, just give him time to admit it to himself, then have him see a doc. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

could be:
age
diabetes
high blood pressure
low testastarone levels
you may be very unattractive

do you smell?
are you ugly?
do you have ugly private parts?

all can contribute to dickpression

Answer 7

arent you a lucky girl-impotent man who cares for you very much.its like heaven.